Ive been going out with a guy and he seem to like me one day and the next day he doesent! i really need help please tell me what i can do!
2006-12-15 06:04:20 · 14 answers · asked by amanda p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's young and has no idea what he wants. I think you should ask him how he feels and if he doesn't give you a straight answer move on to someone who will appreciate you & your love!
2006-12-15 06:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean actually physically hurting yourself?? Stop. Listen to what you are saying. If you had a friend telling you this, what would be your advice to her??
Don't take this the wrong way; if your cry for help is more than a mere play for attention you should distance yourself from this guy and seek the advice of a counselour. I have been hurt emotionally in the past, & loved so much that when that person was no longer in my life I thought I would die of a broken heart. Guess what?? I'm still here. These experiences make you a stronger person. You learn from them, grow & mature from them to become a stronger person.
Learn to like who you are.....you sound very young and have much to learn. Boys will come and go, eventually you'll meet one that is a keeper. Perhaps this boy isn't Mr. Right, he's just Mr. Right now.
2006-12-15 12:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kati B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guy thing they always blow hot and cold i think they get afraid that there starting to like you too much dont worry about it guys need time to settle into a relationship as long as hes not being mean or hurtfull id just give him time if he was being disrespestful then id have to dump him nobody wants someone like that
2006-12-15 06:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
r u dating my ex boyfriend
trust me its hard but u need to establish whether or not he's interested or not and make sure ur satisfied with the answer so u don't go thru the 3yr roller coaster i went thru
the make up, break up and repeat cycle
cuz trust if u don't handle it you'll always be confused
cuz love is hard thing
2006-12-15 06:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by bs_chica_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what the deal is and considering what the answer will be go from there. If he likes you, Great! If he doesn't, you'll get over him and find some one new and better.
2006-12-15 06:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cait 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on sister and find a real man who won't play games, they are few and far between, but they are out there~
2006-12-15 06:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pattie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for the average effect
if he like you most of the time, that could maybe be enough
if you and he are both lonely, its nice jus to be with each other I think
whatever happens, it feels good to be in love sometimes, at least it is for me
2006-12-15 06:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will end up hurting yourself just let him ask you out if he really likes you or maybe he is playing with your feelings just wait and if he does not like you its not the end of the world theres other men
2006-12-15 06:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by chubbygurl_619 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to find someone who likes you everyday, he sounds so confusing. you really need stability in a relationship
2006-12-15 06:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, he will cause you great pain. There is someone out there who really likes you for you and will not act like that.
I am Special (Repeat after me) I are Special (Repeat after me)
2006-12-15 06:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Monkeylynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋