Ok here's the scenerio....I'm in a fairly new relationship (5 months) and my boyfriend is somewhat of a whiner. Any time I go anywhere or do something w/o him, he gives me the 3rd degree. Note his last relationship, his last gf cheated on him and I have never cheated on him. Any way, I think it has a lot to do with his own insecurity, which is literally driving me nuts. It almost makes me feel like I have to walk on eggshells to even hang out with my friends. Every single time that I have gone out with my friends, he constantly calls and texts me the whole night to try to ruin my night. For the most part, he is a good guy and does nothing but respect and adore me when we do spend time together. Help, how can get this whining to STOP before it drives me insane.
2006-12-15 06:10:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Tell him to put a cork in that whine
2) Find a new boyfriend.because he is never going to let up.
2006-12-15 06:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot tolerate whining.
You cannot change anyone but you.
It is 5 months only into this thing and he is making your world smaller.
I don't think this relationship is going to make it.
sorry
2006-12-15 14:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he matures? he is full of insecurity and lacks trust..that is impossible for you to cure for him, he will have to do that himself
2006-12-15 14:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that feeling.
just talk to him about trusting you, and if there's no trust, this isn't a real relationship.
he needs to be able to trust you.
2006-12-15 14:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Beeeccaaa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋