I have a female friend who is notorious for flirting or just being nice to the point that it's understood as flirting. She's been this way with me but I don't know how to take it. Should I take this as face value of her just being nice or act on it? And if I should act on it, how?
2006-12-15 06:13:10 · 21 answers · asked by will 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well think about when she is hanging out with you and other guys at the same time....does she focus more on you? if so she is probably interested in you....but if she acts the same to them all then she is just a flirt and dosent like you like you.....Im one of the biggest flirts and i dont intially intend to be but hey it happens....so coming from a fellow flirt thats my advise.....also if she acts more real around u and not an obvious flirt she may be interested in you....it can go either way hahah us girls can be very confusing....good luck with it!!! BUT if u really like her then go for it!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 06:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Did you say she's NOTORIOUS for flirting. Don't fall for her dude. Just keep it going the way she wants it. If she flirts, you flirt in return. Don't be serious until you're damn sure she is flirting with no one else.
2006-12-15 06:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be flattered..most of us don't waste our best flirts on guys we don't like. But it sure is fun, and we do get carried away.
If you like her, tell her.
You could ask? use your sense of humor... do you really want me to follow you home? cause that's what I'm thinking?
If that's too bold... you can always flirt back in a way that sends the message that says if you don't mean that, please stop.
2006-12-15 06:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how far it goes... you might be able to flirt her out of the draws. If she stops you at a certain point, then she is just a tease, and not worth getting excited over.
2006-12-15 06:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it for face value. But if she persists. Approach her about it. (i.e., say to her, jokingly, "If I didn't know any better, I'd say your flirting with me").
One of two things will probably happen
1) She'll be a little more forward (then you'll know)
2) She'll ease off
2006-12-15 06:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Don R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl are naturally flirty and do not have any intention of following up. if you are interested in acting on it ask her out to a casual date. one that won't be taken to mean anything too special so that you can build slowly instead of being refused outright if she's just being nice.
2006-12-15 06:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you wnt something to come of it? if no then just blow her off, if yes, then flirt back and see what happens, flirty girls that arent really interested in you will pretty much let you know with her facial expressions and short attitude if you flirt back.
2006-12-15 06:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should act on it if your friends just stay friends because acting on her flirting habits could mess up everything.
2006-12-15 06:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a mind reader and you cant tell how she really feals the only way to deal with it is to flirt back and take it one step at a time
2006-12-15 06:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you like her- but if you don't, say something that says "sorry, I already have a girlfriend." I am NOT telling you to say that but such as if it was after school say "Oops! sorry, I have to go get ready for my date tonight!" Or in the middle of school say "Have to go meet my girlfriend down the hall" and the with the beginning of school say that, too.
2006-12-15 06:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋