2006-12-15 06:23:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 21 years old and a virgin too. Don't feel bad, and don't rush into having sex either. Have a nice day!
2006-12-15 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've got a lot of advice already about breaking up with your boyfriend. If you've saved yourself for this long, don't waste it on someone that won't believe you about something that means so much to you... something you've protected for someone special. I personally believe you should guard your virginity until you can give it as a gift to your husband. But whether or not you agree with me on that, don't think less of yourself or feel like you have to prove to other people that you're a virgin... that's between you and the guy you one day give that to.
2006-12-15 06:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by S@R!KO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you have nothing to prove not even to your boyfriend. I would stop telling people you are a virgin. It seems to bother you that no one believes you. So just keep that to your self. Their's nothing wrong with being a virgin especially in this day in age. So if I were you I wouldn't even worry that no one believes you.
2006-12-15 06:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not for anyone to believe or disbelieve, being a virgin is a beautiful blessing not many individuals are these days. When the moment is right you will know when.... Don't let the disbelief of others thoughts will you into doing something your not comfortable or ready for. So don't do anything but BE YOURSELF and don't indulge in the disbelief of others. I believe this will help.
2006-12-15 06:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by zionputo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend doesn't even believe you then maybe you shouldn't be together to begin with. As for you being a virgin, I wouldn't care if anyone believed me or not as long as you know and don't go broadcasting it everywhere cause guys will just try to get in ur pants os they can say that they were your 1st.
2006-12-15 06:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin till YOU are ready and find the guy who means something to you. That your boyfriend can not find that true shows he thinks EVERYONE has to have sex. He should trust what you say and if he cannot then dump him. He has put you into his small frame of thinking and he does not see you as an individual.
2006-12-15 06:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a number of options:
1) become a non-virgin - now you can say you are not virgin
2) tell everybody you are not virgin - nobody will know it is true or a lie
3) disregard people not believing you
I favor the last solution. If somebody doesn't believe you he doesn't really love you.
2006-12-15 06:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by blapath 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to prove to anyone that you're a virgin! If your boyfriend doesn't believe you than what is he trying to say about you and what kind of a relationship will you have if you don't trust what someone's saying is true?
2006-12-15 06:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. You don't have to prove being a virgin to anyone. Some day the right person will find out for himself.
2006-12-15 06:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by unclebirchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there...i was a late bloomer myself...you dont do anything and dont even try to prove anything to him....if he didnt believe you it's his lost!
he will find out the truth when you sleep with him (trust me he will!) and you dont even have to say a word.
It is not a bad thing when you are still a virgin at this age...be confident...and believe in yourself ^^
2006-12-15 07:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋