I have been sleeping with my moms finance! Im in love with him and when she goes to work we fool around! Im not disgusting but i cant help it. Im 16 and hes 35. He is so good to me . How do i tell me mom ive been with him????
2006-12-15 06:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by divine dana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you may need some long term advise on this matter. email me and fill me in on more details and we will go from there. what exactly do you mean fool around. because it might be advisable to tell your mom what's been going on depending on what you mean by "fooling around" so email me and we will go over this in a good way
2006-12-15 06:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Micheal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, what could a 35 year old possibly have in common with a 16 year old? ~Other than the fact that in your situation he must live under the same roof >.>
I would suggest you tell your Mother and expect her to be upset. This guy sounds like a Pedo! 35 Year old guys don't fool around with 16 year olds unless they want to go to jail for a long time, unless they are mentally screwed up, or just evil mal-intentioned men.
You're feelings must be mixed up, and you need to let you Mom know what is going on now. You are too young to be playing these kind of games in the first place! Grow up, take responsibility for the mistake, apologize to your mother and kick the lozer out!
2006-12-15 14:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by ilgi2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disgusting
2006-12-15 14:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by SoMuch2Give 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely too young to be messing with a 35 year old man, and he's only using you to fulfill his fantasy of being with a younger woman. Sorry to tell you, but it is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself. At 16, you don't know what love is and he's not doing anything but getting his rocks off on a young, gullible girl.
2006-12-15 14:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not the disgusting one. He is. What kind of man sleeps with the mother and her daughter? I'm sure he can't wait to marry her so he can have all the access to both of you that he wants.
He doesn't love you. If he did, he wouldn't be banging mommy too. And you know he is not going to marry you. He would be too ashamed to even introduce you as a girlfriend! He's only good to you because you give up your juicy teen kitty to his 30-something year old butt.
Your mother can't marry this pedophile. I hope she doesn't toss you out when she finds out. You poor child! I feel like doing violence to him!
2006-12-15 14:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible! First off you're underage! Secondly, he should be ashamed! Third, you are going to lose the trust of your mom when she finds out about this. I hope you think it worth it because you could end up losing a special mother daughter relationship over a stupid guy. But you'll see in the long run how it turns out.
2006-12-15 14:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have enough love and respect for u and your mom. I would never sleep behind my mom at all. That man who's a coward know that he can't have nothing with you. Your only easy, young, trashy p@#$y. He has no respect for you. So when u say he treats you nice what do u mean, treating you to a kids meal. You have a lot to learn young lady.
2006-12-15 14:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose this guy. Anyone, never-the-less a 35 yr old, who cheats on their fiance with anyone is awful. Knowing that you're family and only 16 makes it worse.
You don't love him, you're too youg to know true love.
2006-12-15 14:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tim H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
35??? what were you thinking...that's illegal...honey first of all your not in love ok. Men like this just want to get you in bed. Trust me if he's not satisfy of having your mom then he's not going to be satisfy with just you in his life.
2006-12-15 14:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your mom's fiance want to sleep with you? - is he really that desperate? You seem very unattractive. Do you all live in a trailer together?
2006-12-15 15:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Very Nice Indeed! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋