Yesterday I had a guy ask me if I wanted to go to the movies, he was a friend so I said sure thinking we would go in a group. Then he started saying we could go see whatever I want....if I feel comfortable. The worst thing is he asked at church, and I didnt realize he was asking me out until I said sure yeah. See he is also one of my older brothers friends, and I know he really likes me. How do I say in a nice way not interested, keep in mind I want to stay friends with him, since I have to see him all the time.
2006-12-15 06:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always try to emphasize that you're going out with him because your a friend of his. When you get out with your friends for movies or night out hook him up with other girls and give words of encouragement start with things like "since youre my friend i hooked you up with"
if he confess to you about his feelings towards you try to tell him that you dont like him in an honest and courteous manner that you also love him, but only as a friend. Let him say all the things that he needs to say to you, and when he is finish tell why he shouldn't want you. You can also write him a letter if you want to.
But if everything fails, confrontation is your last resort! Before doing that, tell your friends that you'll need to do it.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 06:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by alvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is tough.. You could go to the movies this one time, that way you went, then if he ask you again just tell him you are not interested.
2006-12-15 14:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out what his intentions are. Maybe, he is just wanting to hang out as "just friends". So ask him if your just hanging out or if it is a date! If its a date, then tell him how you feel!! Although you want to remain friends and he wants more, the relationship has already changed! And, you can't control that!
2006-12-15 14:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your parents don't allow you to date one-on-one. You can even have your brother back you up on this. If you're too old to use the parents excuse, you'll just have to tell the truth.
2006-12-15 14:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies and just tell him you're going as friends and nothing more.
2006-12-15 14:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite one other or several other female friends to go with. Have them come over before he picks you up and you can all be ready when he gets there!!!!
2006-12-15 14:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by KIB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna hurt his feeling regardless, just said you are busy and you would like to do it some other time. He'll understand.
2006-12-15 14:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the movies, be careful what movie you pick. . .let it at that
2006-12-15 14:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the same thing you wrote down
2006-12-15 14:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dn't hink this is goin to work out
2006-12-15 14:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋