We all get on great but would it be a wise move? Im not the kind to be center of attention anyway!
Help me...
2006-12-15 05:48:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No No No No No No No No No and No!
It should be YOUR wedding day, the greatest day of your life, to be decorated, organised exactly as you've always dreamt it.
Do NOT dilute your dream to accomodate the dreams of your aunty, you will have different tastes, dreams, priorities and budgets. There is always disagreement between families at weddings (who gets invited, who sits where etc etc), multiply that aggravation up by having two brides.
Don't do it.
2006-12-16 02:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there pressure on you to do it? I guess it does help share the cost but it's not a very nice reason for it.
I think maybe there are some things that shouldn't be shared unless there is a very good and sentimental reason to to this then I wouldn't.
It sounds more like you are looking for reasons not to do it.
You also need to take into account whether one of the other couple is more dominant than you. If so you will have to have their wedding their way. You won't get to choose much as you will be pushed around and manipulated.
If you are more dominant do you want to do this to someone and change the way they plan their day?
To me it sounds like a recipe for a bust up between a group that currently has a great relationship with each other.
You can all agree beforehand that you won't fall out but in all honesty how can everyone have exactly the day they wanted?
2006-12-15 06:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by delphi13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, never, no way in Hades. Every double wedding I have ever heard of was a complete and total disaster. If the brides got along before the wedding, they sure didn't afterward. If you are taking the time and spending the money to commit yourself to a partner permanently, then you need to respect both of you enough to have your own day. It may seem like a good way to save money now, but I guarantee you won't feel that way a week before the wedding day. Good luck!
2006-12-15 06:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Di 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you want then go for it. You will also be the center of attention away if you have the double wedding. It's a wedding period so eyes will be on you as well as your partners aunty.
2006-12-15 05:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Foreveryoung 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you want out of your wedding day. You [hopefully] only have one wedding day, and how you celebrate it is up to you. I personally wouldn't recommend a double wedding because it's your day as has been mentioned, and being perfectly honest, planning and organizing a double wedding might cause a bit of tension between the two couples deciding on what to do.
Sure, the cost of the whole thing might be cut slightly, should you do a joint wedding, but is it really worth it?
2006-12-15 06:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by clio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no......I'm not the type of person to be the center of attention so we planned on a Destination Wedding..... I don't regret a thing, I didn't feel exposed and lastly, it was my day as I would have loved to spend it! Besides, they might hog all the cake! LOL.
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GL!
2006-12-15 05:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by pinkchicchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you really! But I wouldn't. If you don't like being center of attention, why not go for something small and intimate .. Its the day you and your man make your commitment to each other, and I think more personal for you if it's just YOUR day. You don't need to make grand entrances etc, work it around all your favorite places and people. Whatever you decide to do, just remember these memories will be cherished by you and your kids forever!!
2006-12-15 05:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wedding should be between you and your husband. Personally i would not want to share the happiest day of my life with anyone else apart from my husband. Its going to be all about you, you cannot share it with another blushing bride. Please just Let it be you and your mans day, his aunty can have her moment at her own wedding. I think you will regret it if you did have a joint wedding...Good luck anyway whatever you decide x
2006-12-15 05:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by SoldiersGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a shame to have to share all the glory on the one special day a girl dreams of her whole life. Can you imagine the fights over themes, table decorations etc. It would turn into a nightmare with neither of you getting what you really dreamed of. I would opt for your own wedding even if it is on a tighter budget.
2006-12-15 05:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in all likelihood does not yet how some diverse theory. What if rather you obtain married a week aside? then you definately could desire to each and each be in one yet another's wedding ceremony and have your person special occasion. additionally, after the 2d wedding ceremony you could desire to pass on a honeymoon cruise collectively. Get your rooms completely spaced out. you're starting to be your dinners & pass to the exhibits collectively. you could desire to even do some issues in port collectively. this variety you might have specific time collectively yet no longer too plenty time. additionally, you would be expertise if the different couple does not desire to do something for a collectively as whether it additionally supplies yet another couple to hangout with and split expenses in port (including taxis).
2016-12-18 14:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋