Okay, so I go to a bar last night with some friends to watch a band play. To make a long story short, I end up making-out with this girl I had never met, and she was pretty drunk. She told me during the show that she was having a party at her house after the show, and we should come. I told her I didn't know how to get to her house and she told me to call her to find out how to get there, so I got her number after the show. I called her, she remembered me surprisingly, and told me that her and some of her friends were going to get something to eat, and she would call me when they got back. No surprise she never did, but I don't really think she knew who she was by the time the night was over. So, should I try to call now or not? I don't want to seem desperate or like a stalker or anything, but even if I did call her back what do I say? If she hadn't been so drunk I would have no problem calling her back. I am just not familiar with this situation and would really like advice.
2006-12-15 05:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by jfbird1986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should call her, if she answers, jokingly ask why she never called you back. she sounded pretty wasted so she may have forgot or passed out of something. if she doesn't answer, leave a message, something simple like "hey this is so-n-so that you met the other night, gimme a call back if you want, later" and if she calls you back then she's interested, if she doesn't, shes not. Make it all simple and casual and see where it leads.
2006-12-15 05:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Caleigh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for a party buddy who doesn't have a straight state of mind and needs to drink herself into oblivion,then yeah call her back. Or let her sober up for a day or so,call her when she's hopefully sober and see if she remembers you. If she seem to be avoiding a conversation with you or dosent answer after a couple of calls,then just forget it. It was just a one night scam and I'm sure you'll be able to have more in the future,if that's what your looking for. If not try to stay away from drunk girls and find yourself a woman.GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-15 13:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a call and see how she is feeling today. She probably got something to eat and crashed for the night. If you dont try you will never know then you will always wonder...what if! So pick up the phone and call her!! Good luck & Happy Holidays!
2006-12-15 13:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by mare122870 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her and you want to call her back then just go for it. If she still remembers you then set something up and go out with her. Hopefully she is the same person when she is not so drunk.
2006-12-15 13:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her back. Because she probally don't remember you. All she remember is drinking with you. She probally did some other guy before you. If she hasn't called you back just let it go and move on. To get a girl you don't need to be wasted to get her. Try getting someone sober.
2006-12-15 14:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be only courteous and chivalrous for you to call her, if only to make sure she got home OK!
Just say his it's me from last night, I really enjoyed talking to you and I hope you don't mind but I was a bit worried as we'd all had a drink and I wanted to make sure you got home OK.
Then you can move the conversation on from there.
2006-12-15 13:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait a day or so ! give her a call over the weekend! just say hey found this number on my phone must of been from that crazy fun night i had! want do it again!
or do you want to get a dinner and movie!
just what ever you do WAIT 1 DAY.. if you call her today! yes you will look despreate... turn off!
2006-12-15 13:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her one more time. If you don't get a positive response, I would not call her anymore. Ask her how the party turned out.
2006-12-15 13:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her back and pretend you lost something at the bar that night and you just realize this now. ask her did she recall anything and then get into a conversation with her and work it from there. that should work.
2006-12-15 13:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by back2jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her back. Tell her that you are glad to have met her and that you think she is really cool. Ask her if she wants to get together sometime. If she says no ... just say ok .. that's cool and end it there.
2006-12-15 13:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋