I really like my boyfriend and ironically the three of us always hang out (me my boyfriend and his friend) kind of cuz we all have the same sport interests. Lately I can't help myself from crushing on his friend - a lot. I wish I didnt but I just can't help it. I'm not sure if his friend likes me or not and even if he did he wouldnt act because im going out w/ his friend. it's complicated. what should i do?
2006-12-15 05:47:56 · 13 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl leave it alone he is not worth it if u got a good man go with it i used to kind of crush on my bf friend too he has braids ear ring nice body + dimples but i love my bf too much so i left it alone and glad i did cause he just doggs gurls so find out his rap and think if u love ur bf enough not to do that to him try not talking to his friend for a while talk to ur bf about it too cause its not fair ur wasting his time if u don't love him. think aout everybody and not just ur self because most likely his friend will play u for playin his best friend i am here to help so don't get it twisted talk to u later maybe lol byee!!!
2006-12-15 05:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by ceecee_holmes 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if the 3 of you always hang out...that was bound to happen. I would try not to hang out with his friend. I know that would be hard but that's not cool to like your boyfriends friend. That would create a lot of drama. So if I were you I would somehow stop liking his friend. Always think about the consequences of your actions. You are in control !!
2006-12-15 05:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a crush, just leave it as that. Let's put it this way. If your bf's best friend..is indeed an honorable friend, he will never date you as long as you are with his friend. And, generally between guy friends..it isn't recommended to date a best friend's ex either. If you do make a move on him...you will ruin their friendship. And, thats bad. They will both probably hate you honestly.
My suggestion, just go out with you and your bf (not with his best friend). Hopefully, this will help you forget his best friend. If this doesn't work, I would break up with your boyfriend. If you really like his best friend..you can lay low awhile then go after him. However, like I said previously..it will most likely hurt their friendship.
2006-12-15 06:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mav17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not complicated. You know right from wrong. You just dont want to do the right thing. You're going to do what you want to do and thats fine because we're all human, and there are a lot of temptations in life, but dont look to us to justify your wrongdoing.
2006-12-15 05:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by mine2006aug 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is cheesy BUT DON'T LEAVE THE ONE FOR THE ONE YOU THINK YOU LIKE!! Well try avoiding his friend for a while!! It'll be hard but hey it's a start!!!
2006-12-15 05:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to have an innocent crush on someone...don't take it any further though, people will get hurt.
2006-12-15 05:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a threesome in the making if I ever heard one.
2006-12-15 05:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is your boyfriends friend, he will not act, its just a crush
2006-12-15 05:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that i like somebody else. or u can just say we have to break up. another solution is to just break up with that person and
give him a reson
2006-12-15 05:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by lizhoertz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its wrong, so dont do it. The little think in you they tells you its wrong is your conscience.
2006-12-15 05:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Monkeylynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋