Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

2006-12-15 05:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by kanika a 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 7 years, a child, a new business and a lot of future plans. He is a good guy and a good father and even though he doesn't give me attitude every single day, when he does is kind of bad and it hurts so much that I have to cry. It really hurts when he yells at me to a point in where it even makes me think about forgetting about everything and leave him, but then stupid me after he says sorry, I won't do it again and I'll try to change, it seems like if at that moment I don't have any other choice but to forget the incident and keep on walking. Even when he apologize knowing that he was wrong he would still blame it on me by saying that I made him do it. I don't know what to do, I really want to keep my family together and I don't want 7 more years to past by dealing with the same thing. Compare to when I met him he has improved like an 80 % but I'm still kind of disatisfy. We're suppose to get marry but I don't know now. What do you think I can do? pleasetellme

2006-12-15 05:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by D1NONLY 2 in Weddings

have you ever gone out with or married to a girl that half your age?

2006-12-15 05:16:56 · 3 answers · asked by deliah 3 in Family

My huband was telling me about some outfit that he thinks I'd look great in and wants to buy for me. Well, as he's telling me this I find myself getting mad!! And I say that I'd probably never wear it and it'd be a waste of money. He doesn't catch onto my anger but I have no idea why I felt so upset! Maybe I'm just a b*tch! J/K! But does anybody else ever feel this way or am I totally alone on this one?

2006-12-15 05:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by senn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote this a guy a letter telling him how much i fell about him. And now everytime i see him he wont talked to me and he always ignoring. And today i think he was telling everybody about the note.And it really pissed me off. What does this mean, and what should i do about this situation.

2006-12-15 05:16:18 · 22 answers · asked by shenequa t 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, if you are living with someone but still talking to the opposite sex and flirting with them online, how many would consider that cheating and END the relationship?

2006-12-15 05:16:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 05:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband had an affair about 3 years ago but i just found out last week. it totally tore me up. i told him i was leaving after christmas.(we have kids so im doing this for them). he's begging me to stay and swearing it hasnt happened since then and that he feels terrible about it and regrets it. i hope he does! anyway, im really confused about what to do. i keep telling myself that this happened along time ago but i keep thinking how he hid this secret from me. this is a hard thing to deal with because we have kids together and hes a good provider. im afraid i cant make it on my own. i guess im just looking for some advice on what to do. any one got any?

2006-12-15 05:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by pussycat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anything special unusual or just plain boring let me knw !!

2006-12-15 05:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by sassy! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so when she walked in the dorr i was crying and pissed and then she looked at me and asked what was wrong i punched her in her face she strated crying and i just sat ther and called her a ******* ***** was he nose was bleeding and then she ran to her car and left i never mean't for this to happen somebody help me find her and get her back please

2006-12-15 05:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i live check by check and in the beginning i didn't want to, but know i said forget it,but the thing is that we only have debts thats all we have and i'm sure that somebody is helping her (you know what i mean)because we don't have money like that.she abandoned me and left me with the rent and everything, i 'm going crazy.and i'm pretty sure even though we don't have kids or anything exept debts is going to be contested and thats the point that i don't have enough money to hire a lawyer,don't qualified for legal aid either... any comment will be helpful thanks

2006-12-15 05:15:01 · 11 answers · asked by the truth will set us free... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 05:14:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-15 05:14:02 · 14 answers · asked by y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going on a blinde date sort off, i know this guy through online and we love eachother to death,finally we meeting tommorrow wow! and i am dressing some how sexy,halter top with jeans n boots,,and after buying my outfit,tonight all of the sudden i am feeling uneasy, i am thinking what if he likes me cause of my body and not due to my heart n who i am, i am really confused..should i change my mind to dress up as such...but one thing i know about him is that i am his favourite person on this earth

2006-12-15 05:13:46 · 37 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 05:13:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you feel after you kiss, I mean, do you consider kissing just that. Or do you feel like women do? fro example, would you consider kissing to be able to open the doors for love, or do you need to get more intimate with you girl to be able to feel like that?

2006-12-15 05:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I was supposed to start my period the 13th, but I was at work yesterday and my stomach was feeling upset, so i went to the bathroom and I noticed i was lightly spotting i thought i was going to come on my periodm but i didnt spot anymore, and this morning i went to the bathroom and i was spotting but when i wipped, i noticed the toliet paper was a brownish color, but im not bleeding..can you tell me if this is a symptom of preg. of what? im confused

2006-12-15 05:12:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my heart is broken and i want to move on as soon as possible, pls tell me the best way to heal it or hide it.

2006-12-15 05:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by lucylove 1 in Singles & Dating

The person in question is a good friend. She and I have become incredibly closer over the few months. She has spent all of her time with me the last two times I saw her. She even followed me around as I talked to other people. I do not mind much, but I have never had this happen to me before. Why does she now spend all of her time with me?

2006-12-15 05:12:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My insecure friend who is very indecisive at times wants me to move into her condo (that her mom owns). I'll be having my own room/restroom and she will have her own as well. The thing is, she's very wishy washy in the things she says sometimes...sometimes I feel like she's not telling me the full story. One minute, she says her mom's thinking about selling the place, then one minute she says its just her that wants her mom to sell the place because the bills are too high/burdensome, then says if that should happen we can find a place together??? All the girls I hang out w/ at school are pressuring me to move in w/ her.... how do I break it to her that I want to just find my own place. Should I just be honest w/ her about her wishy washiness? Mind you, we have become friends and she's so sweet.

2006-12-15 05:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Friends

what are the things you do to make yourself hot,when you are with your husband??
please try to give elaborate answers:)
thanks in advance

2006-12-15 05:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by ColD fIRe! 1 in Weddings

he's seriously so so nice, and it seems like he really likes me. he's reeeeeeeeeeally hot too. but he doesn't go to my school. i know him from my older brother. he sends me cute little text messages in the morning that say stuff like "good morning sweety ;) hope you slept well" and texts like that at night too. my only problem is he's a lot more experienced than me, and i mean a lot. so i don't know what to do. should i just go for it? apparently a lot of girls like him and i want to get with him while i can.

2006-12-15 05:10:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have had a relationship on and off for 8 years, We went out to eat on a Friday, he found another girl on Sat. and then Sun. he told me were done completely. It hurts he dropped me just like that, why would he do that? He is still with her, the only thing he says is he wants to see where this goes with the other girl. He was my friend how can he just drop me without any feelings anymore? I feel betrayed.

2006-12-15 05:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by padros 3 in Singles & Dating

its like a song/poem kinda thing.
Its been days now
And its clear now
That these feelings are more than letting go
I’m not quite complete without you
I see no point in turning back again
Cause I know just what will happen
I wish I could make it right
I wish I could hold you tight
Because my arms wont take you for granted
So just take back "goodbye"
And lets give this one last try


I can't stop these thoughts of you
And I don’t want to go without you
And I know that you will never leave my mind
Cause girls like you are the one true kind
And I don’t want to be this lonely
I know that you think about me
well I think about you too…

2006-12-15 05:09:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 05:08:41 · 4 answers · asked by navya k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 biokids and 3 stepkids. All 5 live with us full time and the absent parents are not involved in the kids lives. Our first Christmas together we had a bit of an issue. My husband had been laid off so I went into my savings and spent an equal amount of money on all 5 kids for Christmas. My husband did not think to tell me that his family and ex-wife's family mail in gifts for the stepkids. A day after Christmas literally DOZENS of gifts started rolling in for the stepchildren. It was great to see them opening gifts and having a great time but my biological children had nothing to open. I had spent all of my savings (not much to begin with) buying gifts for everyone BEFORE Christmas. The stepkids get many gifts from biomom's family each year (and some of them even send gifts for MY children! But most send only for my step kids which is understandable. My question: Is it acceptable for my husband and I to buy a couple of gifts for my biokids to even things out a little?

2006-12-15 05:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by just me 4 in Family

My boyfriend doesn't want to be badgered about cohabitating or marriage. So he just wants to see me on the weekend. This is after a year of him staying at my place. He loves me and doesn't want to break up. He just doesn't want things to go so fast. So, do we quit having sex. Or does it matter? I mean, I don't want him to have his cake and eat it too.

2006-12-15 05:08:22 · 15 answers · asked by cheerstoyou 2 in Singles & Dating

k so i dated this kid a while back and we broke up... well he happens to hang out with all my best friends so i get to see him all the time, and he started bringing his new girlfriend over-- and me and her actually get along really well.... i am not trying to break them up i'm not talkin sh!t on him to her, i'm not trying to be scandolous in anyways (why would i? i can't stand him anymore) but he always acts weird when i'm around... even our other friends have noticed, it's like as soon as i come around he's all the sudden on high alert--- why do you think that is? we've been hanging out for like 6-7 months since we've broke up but all the sudden he's a freak? what's going on?

2006-12-15 05:08:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because your parents hate him....and you want to just move on but cant because they are constantly trying to contact you!!

2006-12-15 05:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by i<3you! 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, but I don't know if it will lead anywhere. the only thing is that, although i have 2 mixed kids, my parents are still strongly against interracial dating. I have to live with my parents for financial reasons, and i live in constant fear that if i fall for another black guy, that they will kick me out. i've already been told that if i'm caught dating another balck guy that they will take my kids from me, because they don't want them raised by a black man. i don't discriminate against white guys, don't get me wrong, but the guy i like is black. what should i do?

2006-12-15 05:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by red.cherry2001 1 in Singles & Dating