2006-12-15 05:14:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One more reason to wait until marriage before sex. At least the person you're sleeping with already proved he loves you.
2006-12-15 05:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it. This happened to me. As soon as I told him he split and he has never paid a dime. But, it has been five years since he left and I am doing great. You can get DSS to help you with child support, and yes, you can get it while pregnant. Just use the next 9 months to focus on you and getting ready for this bundle of joy. You might find it is easier w/out the father. My second child's father is in the pic and it makes it more difficult. Not that I am complaing cause he is wonderful but we have different ideas on parenting.
You just don't worry about him, he isn't worth it and doesn't deserve you or this baby!
2006-12-15 13:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by cupid6980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on your having a baby your about to be a mother don't let the fact that the daddy wants nothing to do with you and the baby he is the one missing out. There's a good man out there for you don't dwell on him.
2006-12-15 13:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then leave him out of yours and the babies life you can be a good parent as one. Your child will still be loved. If he doesn't want anything to do with you then be a good family with out him you will find someone who will love you and be happy to be a father to your kid.
2006-12-15 13:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*%&%$k him!!! He is certainly not the man you would like to share the rest of your life with. Think and plan all thinks as if it were only you with your baby. If he comes back later, that would not affect your plans and your life. Good luck!!
2006-12-15 13:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you don't need him and will be better off without him in your life or the baby's life anyway. If he's not willing to accept responsibility for something he had a part in, then he's not worth it.
2006-12-15 13:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue him for child support then he will have something to do with you. He helped make the baby he needs to be responsible
2006-12-15 13:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life. Your life just doesn't stop because you're pregnant. Seek child support and do what you got to sweetie. There's no doubt that he'll have to take care of his seed.
2006-12-15 13:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that he will be paying for child support and he don't wanna do that then he will be in jail. But other than that you go on with your life. Cause then you and your child don't need that kind of negativity in ya'll lives.
2006-12-15 13:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by shenequa t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you apply for child support, that is so hurtful because he knows that this is his child and is running away from the responsibility.
2006-12-15 13:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋