i am going on a blinde date sort off, i know this guy through online and we love eachother to death,finally we meeting tommorrow wow! and i am dressing some how sexy,halter top with jeans n boots,,and after buying my outfit,tonight all of the sudden i am feeling uneasy, i am thinking what if he likes me cause of my body and not due to my heart n who i am, i am really confused..should i change my mind to dress up as such...but one thing i know about him is that i am his favourite person on this earth
2006-12-15 05:13:46 · 37 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
noo his not someone like a murder or so..all the people i know have told me good about him,he also made me talk to his mum over the phone and after meeting him,his planning to take me over to his place and we both want to spend life together..in between i am 20 and his 28
2006-12-15 05:32:55 · update #1
you little dirty girl go for it
2006-12-15 05:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
be care full girl meet this guy in a public place let someone know where your meeting him and be careful. cause he could be a right nutter and not what he's told you while you chat on line.
just be care full is all as don't wear anything that will be too revealing as it may give him the wrong idea and wear a good pair of shoes so you can run if need be and always stay in public with this guy don't go anywhere away from where you are safe or alone with him until you know him better. you could always meet him in a place you know like the back of your hand and take someone with you to sort of watch you like.
don't mean too scare you but in to days day and age its not safe too trust anyone you've meet on line as they might not be the person they say they are even if they send you a pic as its so easy to send someone ealse's photo etc just keep yourself safe and be sure too tell someone where your going and what time you're meeting him etc and call home leave your phone on have mum or dad phone you and have someone pick you up not let him drive you home. until you sure he's OK
then why not meet him at your parents place ask his mum too come too just be care full is all make sure you safe. there are nutters out there.
2006-12-15 05:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by AARONLEE AND SASHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reccoment dressing down a little bit. Try putting a jean jacket or cardigan over the halter, so if you comfortable you can lose the jacket, and if not, you can cover up. Chances are, if you have been talking to him online for a while, he has shown some interest in you, and not your body since he has never met you. If you would consider him your boyfriend or say that you are dating, I would hope you would know him to be less attracted to your body and more attracted to your mind or personality. Just be yourself, and be careful! Best of luck.
2006-12-15 05:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say dress in whatever you would normally wear for a first date. If you would wear the halter-top for a first date, then wear it. If he loves you for you, you don't have to be something you're not.
Just a word of caution: If you've never met this guy, be careful. You don't know what you're getting. Make sure friends and family know who you're meeting and where, and why not take a friend with you when you first go to meet him? And be sure to call in with a buddy at some time during the date so they know you're okay.
2006-12-15 05:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is first...You can't possibly be inlove with someone online. You can be interested but you can't really aquire true feelings for someone you have never met...For all you know he is feeding you a bunch of BS...You might not actually be his favorite person on earth...Not to be harsh, just honest...Be careful. Otherwise if you are planning on like a casual thing, go for the cute flirty outfit. If you are hoping to date this person, go a bit more conservative, you can look sexy without revealing all (leave a little to the imagination)...Anyway, Good luck!
2006-12-15 05:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you, but on-line "dating" is not really dating. You have not yet met this person in the flesh, so it's not real. Sorry, it just isn't. Even if you've been talking on the phone. There are many nuances about people that are lost on line and on the phone, that you don't get until you meet. Don't be surprised if you are shocked and surprised that you feel differently when you meet in person.
You are engaged in a fantasy. What you are doing is projecting what you want on this person. Nothing more. It's common, since so many people meet on line. But see if it works in person. My guess that you've got a 50-50 shot once you meet. Sorry.
2006-12-15 05:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I swear! Has anyone heard of online preditors? How do you love someone you've never met? Anyone can appear any way they want online but, a rapist or murderer in real life. You are setting yourself up for trouble. Come on! I swear people don't have any sense, these days, any more! My advice to you is to stay away from him because of possible hostility. Go out with people you know, personally (have met several times face-to-face). Just remember. If you decide to go on that date and become another statistic, I tried to warn you. Please, stay safe and make the right decision.
2006-12-15 05:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by slobberknocker_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. I met a guy on line after talking for a month (due to distance) . The day after I met him, I met his sister and his mum. They were lovely normal people.
You never really know a guy until you get to know him. This guy's sister was a nurse and his mum really down to earth. I didn't realise how weird he was until I went away with him 8 weeks after I first met him, 12 weeks after we first e mailed. Once we were out of the country he turned. It was a 3 day city break and he smashed up the room. His best friend told me he was a great guy...... I found out later he was not.
2006-12-15 08:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really think it would be too appropriate to dress like that when you are first meeting a guy you have been talking to on the internet. He might just turn out to like you for your body instead of whats on the inside if you where something like that.i hope all ends well
2006-12-15 05:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mona Lott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dress comfortable. Dont be to sexy or that will be the only thing on his mind. You can dress sexy with out have everything sticking out. Leaave some of that for his imagination. Dont be nervous. I met my husband on line and we are still and forever will be happioly married :)
Good luck!!!
2006-12-15 05:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure to tell others when and where you are meeting him,.. I would think you might tone down the outfit just a bit,.. you may not be sexually attracted to him after you see him
and of course you don't want to look like you are dressed for anything other than a casual outing,
2006-12-15 05:17:53 · answer #11 · answered by hailey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋