Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

My brother is 21 and his girlfriend is 17 they live in IL. As of right now they live together with her mom and brothers. If the two of them move out could her mom charge him with statatory rape or not considering she allows them to live together. They want to move out because her mom makes her do all the cleaning and makes the both of them give her their checks on payday while she sits on does nothing (she doesn't have a job). So my question is can they move out without any legal percussions. (Age of consent in IL is 17)

2006-12-15 04:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by racgrl88 2 in Family

im sure you've heard this question many times but i want to give someone who means a lot to me (guy but not boyfriend) a gift or something just to let him know i care without being too over the top about it, what's a good idea?

2006-12-15 04:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by Katie H 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother-in-law is leaving on the day after christmas to go to the Air Force... Gift ideas????

2006-12-15 04:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family

this bloke i had been dating for a month no longer contacts me since i had sex with him. So i played a trick pretended to be someone else on a dating site and was going to meet him and not turn up. Anyway he wrote to this bogus profile of mine, the only women i met are unemployed scrounger, i could not believe it and he was going to give up looking on the site, i could not believe it, he said to me when i first wrote they are all scroungers they want meals out of me the women i meet, i questioned him about this. Anyway i cannot believe i shared my time with a person like this. I really genuinely liked him, he,s well messed up i think. His attitude stinks do you think so. i worte and said one day you may be ill and be one of those unemployed scroungers. I don,t think i can ever trust anyone again they all turn out to be awful.

2006-12-15 04:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 04:51:34 · 18 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Singles & Dating

So my GF has been constantly getting upset at me because she gets these feelings that I’m cheating. I am being completely faithful and I always have but she won’t believe me. The biggest problem is that when she gets these “feelings” she gets upset and wont talk to me. She’s punishing me for something she thinks is going on. Lately its been getting worse, I tried to go to the mall without her and she got angry because she thought I was going to meet up w/ someone. When I explained that I was going alone was so I could buy her a present, she didn’t believe me. She’s terrified of being hurt, so she’s extra paranoid. She says that she can’t do anything about the feelings but what am I supposed to do. I reassure her time and time again that I love her and that I’m being faithful but it’s obviously not working. We live together and I’m literally always on the phone with her if I’m not working but she still thinks I some how have time to cheat. I love her but I’m tired of getting accused and I’m tired of having her mad at me for no reason, I’ve already told her how I feel and what will happen to our relationship if it continues but all she could say is that she cant help how she feels.

2006-12-15 04:50:58 · 24 answers · asked by 1 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that I am going to be slated for this but I'm not asking your opinion on whether I should stay with my current partner.

The other day I had this conversation with a female friend of mine and out of the blue we both agreed that we fell in love with each other 6 years ago but did nothing about it as we were both in relationships.

The question is:

How many people out there love someone else even though their in a relationship with someone else.

I have decided to be honest with both myself and my partner and leave. (Not to be with her either)

2006-12-15 04:50:19 · 19 answers · asked by Simon M 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have 2 very pushey sisters.
His acts as if there shagging, by demanding his time constantly and is jelouse if he turns her down to do something with me.she also spends to much time dwelling about there childhood and brings him down about it. not to mention that she mothers him! yuck! she is his younger sister, to me she seems to needy. and always want to be at the center of attn.

My sister always calls to ask for money, always needs something, never looks for me unless she needs something. and disapproves of my fiance and is always trying to make me pick here over him, for instance inviting me and my son over for dinner and not him. she bad mouths him to my family and uses him as well when she needs something. when we got ingaged she asked if my ring was fake insted of tell me it was nice.

he thinks we need to leave the state to escape family i think we need to find a middle ground with theses two? can anyone help?

2006-12-15 04:50:17 · 2 answers · asked by Eda M 3 in Family

i met a real nice guy yahoo personals. He from the states. but stay in nierga. what should i do?

2006-12-15 04:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by honey 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I broke up 3 months ago. I made no contact with him, and all of a sudden he contacted me out of the blue just to see what was up. I even held a long conversation with him about nothing. We did not talk about us or our problems. We talked as friends like we use to do when we were together. I did ask him why the sudden change of open communication, and he said just for me to be open. He did not go into details as to what I am suppose to be open to and I did not ask. We did not have a bad break up even though there were hurt feelings in the beginning, which was why we are able to talk. The thing is I don't know what "be open" means and I am not sure if I really want to ask because we need to take things slow even if it is just a friendship. I don't want to start asking questions that would make him think other wise. What do u do with someone contacting u out of the blue because they thought of u, and in a conversation they ask u to be open. So far that's all he has asked me

2006-12-15 04:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 04:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Pyrene 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 04:49:12 · 22 answers · asked by carokokos 3 in Marriage & Divorce

want to include wife
I have been chating socially, and ocassionally erotically for a while
she does not seem to have any interest in online chat for any reason
need some compelling ideas or suggestions to introduce this in a way that is not too pushy, and allows her to go in with an open mind

2006-12-15 04:48:59 · 15 answers · asked by wedge 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Surely you all got something to offer..

2006-12-15 04:48:59 · 3 answers · asked by your_name_here 3 in Singles & Dating

Or taken a friend to a party and ended up doing something with them that you regretted later?

2006-12-15 04:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a very nice watch in my price range and I want to buy it for him but I have never seen him with a watch on. How can I find out if he likes watches but doesnt have one or if he doesnt wear one cause he hates them without him realizing that what I might get him one for christmas?

2006-12-15 04:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by catwoman87 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do people describe themselves as being one thing and in reality they are something else......?

2006-12-15 04:47:50 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been hearing rumors that my hubands has one or two more kids. Is there a Website I can go into to find this out?

2006-12-15 04:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been checking his recent calls and recent dialed on his cell phone and saw a number i have never seen before. when i asked him about it he acted all defensive and said it was someone he worked with. i have even heard a girls voice in the background a few times when i called him when he was supposed to be at work. is he cheating on me or am i worrying too much?

2006-12-15 04:47:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend, i havent seen him for about a month and hes not comming back until mid january. hes in vegas with his family, his mom is getting re married on the 30th. i dont know what to do for him, what to wear. weve never had sex. so i know im not going to give him that as soon as he comes back. but what special thing can i do?? should i plan out a whole day, or just a dinner should i make something for him, should we just rent out a movie, or go out?....please help me.

2006-12-15 04:46:55 · 1 answers · asked by ~*precious*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Will being nice and caring and concern will be enough to know? what if it is his nature and he is just being kind?

2006-12-15 04:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by JAF 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for nearly 8 years and we have 3children. My husband and I have a really good friendship and I feel like if we got divorced it would be like losing one of my best friends, but the truth of the matter is I am not in love with him, I am head over heals madly in love with someone else. My actuall friend, I have been in love with him forever, but he doesn't feel the same way for me he looks at me as just his close friend (at least I think thats how he sees me). I am currently seperated from my husband while he works on his health he has bi polar disorder (during his last episode injured me and our son but he doesnt remember what happened) and sometimes I feel like if I left him now it would be like kicking him when he is down, so I have pretty much stayed married because I dont want to hurt his feelings but I know that we wont ever live together again, so I feel like I am just prolonging the inevitable. I have friends that say stay& try because he is a Good Man. Ahhh!!!

2006-12-15 04:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy in Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Something that i can mail, he's In Minnesota for the holidays

2006-12-15 04:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a college project and could use some outside opinions.

2006-12-15 04:46:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you try to see it for yourself? try to slyly rub against it to see if rumors are true? throw yourself at him? or run?

2006-12-15 04:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by verryblessed 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and i got a date yet i dont have a freakin clue how to flirt!

2006-12-15 04:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a guy who loved me a lot but i always ignored him and avoided him,, made him feel very much embarrassed in front of every one, after that he started saying others that he no more love me.but inside he had the same (love feelings for me). AND NOW everyone is thinking that he nomore loves me and so my best friend who is his very good friend and she is having a crush on him and even i liking him these days and he is also liking me because i asked him for forgivness and he forgave me, now what should i do. should i sacrifice my love for my frend or not?

2006-12-15 04:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me your opinion i want to say why wil u not take ur wife of two years home to meet ur parents but he says NO what do i do i am scared of complaining

2006-12-15 04:45:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a fantasy. I'm male and I want a female partner to m@$turbate with, in person. I just want to share some hot autoerotic fun with an attractive woman. I'm not interested in further sexual activities because I want to be safe.

Is this fantasy possible and likely? Do women who would enjoy this even exist? How and where could I find a woman who would be into this?

2006-12-15 04:44:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do looks matter ? I am not talking like butt ugly. I mean do guys only approach girls they think are hot or do her interests and personality matter too?

2006-12-15 04:44:52 · 14 answers · asked by April 1 in Singles & Dating