Tell me your opinion i want to say why wil u not take ur wife of two years home to meet ur parents but he says NO what do i do i am scared of complaining
2006-12-15 04:45:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah - there is definately a problem here...he's hiding something.
2006-12-15 04:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Scared of complaining?? He's your husband and has been for two years. Doesn't want you to meet his family? There is something a little wierd about that. I would have been complaining two years ago.
2006-12-15 12:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been married two years and you haven't met his parents, and he won't take you to see them at Christmas? There is something very wrong here, I don't know what it is, but this is not what a marriage is about, you two are a family and he should be with you no matter where that is.
2006-12-15 12:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married two years and you haven't met his parents yet? And he won't take you along for Christmas?
How abusive is he that you're afraid to question this or complain? That's what it sounds like... he's got you so terrified of him that you're afraid to voice an opinion.
I think I'd be leaving his butt while he was going home to mommy & daddy for Christmas and leaving me at home!
2006-12-15 12:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Suzuki_Mouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no something dosen't add up here. If you stand by and say nothing you're allowing him to get away with murder. Tell him how you feel don't be scared he'll respect you more if you voice your opinion a man appriciates a woman who's strong.
Christmas is about familly. Good luck.
2006-12-15 12:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by seandel g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would definately complain, why wouldnt he have had u meet his parents before? im always with my parents-in-laws. and im not even married. hes obviously trying to hide something. why dont u just talk to him about how u feel about the whole situstion and how u want to meet his parents too....if i were u id think he doesnt wanna take me cuz he probably has another family or hes getting tired of me n wants to meet new people (for a while) so just confront him about it.
~*precious*~
2006-12-15 12:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by ~*precious*~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to come up with a plan and stick to it. Tell him you will spend one year with his parents and the next with yours. If he won't accept, then he is a bratt. Marriage is all about compromise. If she isn't willing to do that, then you have a problem. The bigger question is: Why have you not met his 'rents after two years? Do they even know that you're married? Go see them by yourself!
2006-12-15 12:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to say something and figure out why he doesn't want you to come, especially since you're married. I sense something is amiss here.
Don't complain, that won't solve anything. Simply ask why you two can't spend Christmas together. Why you can't go or he can't stay.
2006-12-15 12:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by ourxtrees 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be scared to talk about this with your husband! I think that is very strange that he doesn't want you to go with him. If I were you, I would definately say something. You are his WIFE! He needs to tell you what the problem is. Good luck! : )
2006-12-15 12:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 2 years? i think you should meet his parents...but werent they there at the wedding? hmm i dont know, but if you do end up alone for christmas, go home and see your own family or spend some time with the friends that also are alone for christmas. there are ways you can have fun without your hubby =)
2006-12-15 12:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is something weird about that. You need to ask him and there is nothing wrong w complaining. You are his wife and you need to meet the parents.
2006-12-15 12:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋