want to include wife
I have been chating socially, and ocassionally erotically for a while
she does not seem to have any interest in online chat for any reason
need some compelling ideas or suggestions to introduce this in a way that is not too pushy, and allows her to go in with an open mind
2006-12-15 04:48:59 · 15 answers · asked by wedge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
chat w/ you or other men or women?
Tell her its a great way to express, fantansies and desires, that can be sometimes hard to express in words.
I had an online relationship w/ a boyfriend once...hot!hot!hot!
We'd discuss what we would like to do to one another or have done to us...so when we'd get together! OMG wild!
2006-12-15 04:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that she does know you are doing it. The only thing you can do is be point blank & ask her to join in the chats. Tell her that it's not the same without her & you want her to be a part of your erotic chats. If she still doesn't want to, don't force her. She just may not really be into all of that.
2006-12-15 04:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need to be willing to accept what she's willing to give. If she's not interested and you are, why is ~she~ the one that needs to change her mindset?
Some women just aren't comfortable with that kind of stuff. I know this isn't the answer you're wanting however I think it's the most realistic.
2006-12-15 04:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u favor to drop her like a brick & bypass on, i have been there previously & kinda appears like i'm headed for yet another bypass round on my second marriage. ask your self why she has the different telephone, because you have not any way of seeing what, or who she is doing.. commence searching at her pay, does it tutor her operating the hours she says she is operating?? A small GPS monitoring gadget is fairlie cheep & you could cover it lower than the hood of her vehicle, (only make confident YOUR call IS on the vehicle !!!! ) or you ought to be charged with stalking
2016-11-30 19:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I like to "chat" as its like creating your own erotic romance novel. Don't push her as this will create more tension. Just sit back and enjoy the fun!!!!
2006-12-15 05:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my 2 cents...but you might want to be careful of what you wish for. If your wife got into it, then the chances of her finding someone and cheating on you increase exponentially.
So I'd think about it carefully. If you want to spice up your sex life, you might want to consider if your wife having sex with someone else would do the trick.
2006-12-15 04:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she lets you is something in itself, let alone her choice in her life partner.
Marriages don't sustain with such disrespect of each others feelings. You are not helping keep your marriage with your lack of self-control.
I'm sure we'll hear about your induction in the rising number of divorces soon enough.
2006-12-15 04:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by P&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should keep your wife out of your freaky lifestyle. Or maybe you should get help. If you can't help yourself, she's probably going to leave you for this. Lastly, I hate to tell you this, but you're probably not even talking to a female. You have no way of knowing. GET A LIFE
2006-12-15 04:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sarbanes Ox 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
INS,T that caller Cheating ? It was the last time I looked.....Go ahead enjoy your Fun,....See if your Computer, Can keep you Warm om those Cold Dreary, Lonely Nights.
2006-12-15 04:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two should do it between yourselves and then see if she likes it enough to include others.
I'm assuming your wife does not mind your activity. It has to be slow. I like dirty talk but I suck at it so easy does it.
2006-12-15 04:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋