this bloke i had been dating for a month no longer contacts me since i had sex with him. So i played a trick pretended to be someone else on a dating site and was going to meet him and not turn up. Anyway he wrote to this bogus profile of mine, the only women i met are unemployed scrounger, i could not believe it and he was going to give up looking on the site, i could not believe it, he said to me when i first wrote they are all scroungers they want meals out of me the women i meet, i questioned him about this. Anyway i cannot believe i shared my time with a person like this. I really genuinely liked him, he,s well messed up i think. His attitude stinks do you think so. i worte and said one day you may be ill and be one of those unemployed scroungers. I don,t think i can ever trust anyone again they all turn out to be awful.
2006-12-15 04:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's a scounger? Sorry you had to find out the hard way about who he really is. IMO these online dating sites are ways to find sex, not dates. Sorry. Don't judge all men by the last one you dated. Not all are this horrible, right ;) You'll bounce back in no time.
2006-12-15 04:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sorry you had such a bad experience. Don't beat yourself over it though. I had a jerk in my life once as well but I didn't waiste my time playing baby games with him..when it was time to let him go I did so for good and I think it is time for you to take the same step as well. Men and women also can be a little stupid in the love department and if you know he is like that then let him get what he deserves. It will be hard for you to trust again but its important to still believe and have faith that there may be a good man out there for you. I wish you luck.
2006-12-15 12:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Princesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you are thinking like you are,...but, Have you ever said anything bad about men in your life as a generalization? I am sure you have. Did you really mean it? Sometimes people just talk crap because they are frustrated with alot of what they see and get overwhelmed.
A good example of this is I have heard my wife her self say:"Men are just filthy, especially when younger, they don't care about how they live".Now, If i was a fool and wanted to take everything she said as law and that she really meant it in heart.You see we have a 16yr old son who well, can be a bit of a slob sometimes.She was aggravated with him and so was venting to a friend of hers.
Don't just assume because someone says something its because their heart is hard and cold.
See my point?
2006-12-15 13:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are awful. This guy is though. Thank your lucky stars that you found out about him. Move on you'll find the right one.
2006-12-15 12:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't the real him.. he is a player tried and true.
he dosent know he dated you before,
he is just playing this sick helpless puppy that needs to be resqued by some woman with a big heart.
stop concerning yourself with this boy and find yourself a man.
A man that takes charge dosnt put up with games and remains a gentleman.
that would set you straight.
2006-12-15 13:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by yeaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that sounds very bad but it's better then you being with someone drunk so find some one else to be with and don't do anything with him until you are really sure he is the one for you.
2006-12-15 12:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by lula_lil_scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the question?
2006-12-15 12:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by beddybeddy83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. There are no knights on white horses.
2006-12-15 12:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did not uinderstand a word. CLEAR< CONCISE
2006-12-15 13:00:30
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he is a loser!!!!!!!!!1. he wants sex and complains about a meal? only one benefiting is him. so he thinks.lose this guy.
2006-12-15 12:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋