My boyfriend & I broke up 3 months ago. I made no contact with him, and all of a sudden he contacted me out of the blue just to see what was up. I even held a long conversation with him about nothing. We did not talk about us or our problems. We talked as friends like we use to do when we were together. I did ask him why the sudden change of open communication, and he said just for me to be open. He did not go into details as to what I am suppose to be open to and I did not ask. We did not have a bad break up even though there were hurt feelings in the beginning, which was why we are able to talk. The thing is I don't know what "be open" means and I am not sure if I really want to ask because we need to take things slow even if it is just a friendship. I don't want to start asking questions that would make him think other wise. What do u do with someone contacting u out of the blue because they thought of u, and in a conversation they ask u to be open. So far that's all he has asked me
2006-12-15 04:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We broke up because when he came home from war he said he was moving out of the state in 8 months, and I did not want to stick around to be hurt in 8 months.
2006-12-15 04:49:42 · update #1
I am in a similar situation. My ex and I have become good friends, but didn't speak for most of 6 months. He and I have in the past 2 weeks become very close again. Every guy is different, even though we like to think that they are all the same... His asking you to be open could mean several different things. The question is, how do you feel about him and the situation? Do you want to be back together, do you want to work on things slowly, or do you just want a friendship? I would think about that before you try to decide what to do. You don't want to give him the wrong impression, but don't let him play games with you either. No matter what, guard your heart. That's the most important thing I have learned... good luck
2006-12-15 05:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAD NO CONTACT WITH YOUR FOR 3 MONTH WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET BACK WITH HIM. HE EITHER A) DID NOT CARE FOR YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE OR B) WAS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE. IT'S BEEN 3 MONTHS SO I THINK YOU SHOULD KEEP ON MOVING AND LEAVE HIM ALONE
2006-12-15 04:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal like friends, talk to him dont get to attatch and dont ask too many questions. If you still have feelings for him take it slow.
2006-12-15 04:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is lonely and want to be together with u for sex..and is going to hurt u again
2006-12-15 04:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being open means not to keep things from e.o and just be real with e.o
2006-12-15 04:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlie, i wouldn't have dumped him yet. but this convo sounds nice. if you dont love him anymore, then dont have these conversations.
2006-12-15 04:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋