there is a guy who loved me a lot but i always ignored him and avoided him,, made him feel very much embarrassed in front of every one, after that he started saying others that he no more love me.but inside he had the same (love feelings for me). AND NOW everyone is thinking that he nomore loves me and so my best friend who is his very good friend and she is having a crush on him and even i liking him these days and he is also liking me because i asked him for forgivness and he forgave me, now what should i do. should i sacrifice my love for my frend or not?
2006-12-15 04:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not big enough ,,,so ask your elders like mom dad or big bro or sis they will help you in this matter
2006-12-15 05:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant pick people up and put them down. You ignored him, embrassed him and basically dd not want to know. Ok, he has forgiven you, but your best friend is still thinking that there is no love there as you made is clear that there was not.
She has done no harm in having this crush on this boy and it would be unfair of you to now take him from her if she could stand a chance with him You did not want him, she did, now you see she wants him, you want to take it away from her. If you truly value your friendship wth your friend, then you will stand to one side. Friendship is a rare and valueable gift and should be nurtured, friends should be for life.
2006-12-15 13:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all find tht u seriouly like him or nt or it is just tht ur friend is liking him so may be u have tht kind of feelings ...When u get the ans then find out wht ur friends feel for him and how they both are with each other .....IF they are happy with each other then being a friend u decide wht u want ,,,,,
I think u will be able to be the best judge ...
2006-12-15 18:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by koni1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you will have to decide whether you really like him or not.If you are not sure don't embarras him again,you could loose him as a friend too.Further,if it is a choice between True love & Best Friend,choose love.But if its a choice between Crush & Best friend then choose best friend
If you are sure that you really love him (& he loves you too),then you will have to express your feelings.when he took the first step you embarased him in public,so he may be a little apprehensive.The thing is,this time you will have to take the first step.Then it will be upto him to decide between you & your best friend.
2006-12-15 14:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him,talk this out to him & your best friend.I'm sure if it is only a crush your friend'll understand.If not take it as it comes coz there will be a lot more good guys out there.Take it cool!
2006-12-15 14:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by jagusan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fopllow your heart. i knoe its hard bec you love ur bf but you also love this guy. i mean are you sur u love him or do you really like him. i just think that u should take some time and think about everything and follow your heart. but always hoes before bros
2006-12-15 13:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~giggles~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not liking him because you have some feelings for him...rather seeing your friend getting inclined towards him has made you feel that way...so kee ignoring....
2006-12-15 12:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nitin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart says,here you'll get different opinion you will get more confused..finally you gonna do what Ur heart will say so why do u bother ppl about??
2006-12-15 18:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to talk abt this to ur friend & with ur own power of thinkin u can decide of sacrificin him for ur best friend or not..
2006-12-15 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by navya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its for him to decide who he wants.
2006-12-15 12:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋