in every essence of that word...................
they are hard to understand.
2006-12-15 05:42:08 · 51 answers · asked by me_adoreu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Men think that women are the complicated one, and their right. yet men are so simple that they are complicated to us. They do incredibly stupid things that are beyond our grasps of understanding. Men aren't that hard to understand though, because the say what they mean and they mean what they say-there are no hidden meanings or messages like we have. Men are just different, once you understand that, then men are easy to understand. Just don't try to associate with a man as you would your girlfriends, they won't comply!
2006-12-19 03:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men or Women. Both sexes are complicated. But each person is different despite their gender. Guys are just as complicated as women are. I'm a woman and there are things I still don't get about women and I might understand guys better. And there are times, I understand women and I can't understand men. So it's a 50 -50 situation.
2006-12-15 05:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We, as Men, are not complicated. I love seeing the covers of magazines like Cosmo, Glamour, and whatever else because there is invariably an article related to, "6 ways to know your guy likes you" or "what does he really think of you?" or my favorite "how to turn your guy on"
When I see these titles I have to laugh because it shows me that women really don't understand what Men are thinking about. And here it is ...here is the secret answer to what is on our minds. NOTHING! We wake up and try to have a good day, spend some time with our family/girlfriend/wife/kids, make some stupid jokes about the new girl at the office, and pretend like we used to be our High School's star athlete. That's it. If you want to know the real way to turn your guy on, get naked. That'll do just fine. If you want to know what we're thinking, just ask.
Women have such a round-a-bout way of thinking of things that they end up creating scenarios in their mind that could not possibly play out in real life but convince themselves of it anyway. A stain on your boyfriends shirt becomes a torrid love affair with the neighbor's wife that began in Paris shortly after he was released from combat duty. I mean it ...women have fantastical minds!
2006-12-15 06:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone tends to think everyone is complicated.....everyone tends to manipulate there feelings to hide true intentions as a defense. Everyone tends to think they have incite to many things and simply do not. Your frustration is you seek answers for an internal question....meaning you must like or want to know more about something that is only complicated by not asking the right questions and observing behavior. people are far from mysterious as they would like to think they have the ability to keep others away by not speaking or redirecting the answer...
A lot of the time a lot of men do not say things to prevent conflict and feel the information has no merit so it is disregarded as non important. A lot of men like to deal with issues differently to be more efficient .....they feel it allows them to move quicker without explaining in detail.... The truth is everyone does not open to everyone as easily as men do with one another...women create a great deal of ciaos within there own worlds....
2006-12-15 06:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by wonderiswithin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact its the other-wayround.Men are quite straight forward in expressing themselves.Women think Men are complicated & Men think Women are complicated,maybe this has something to do with psychological differences
2006-12-15 06:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They really are not that complicated. Just remember they basically don't think like a woman AT ALL. They usually don't have a clue, unless it's about sex time or game time. They don't usually over think things, as we women do. And just because they aren't sensitive, romantic doesn't mean they don't care. They're just men. Less is more for them, most of the time.
2006-12-15 05:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i will sum up men for you in three words. 1)sex 2)food 3)beer.
that is pretty much every man's idea of a perfect day. that's not complicated
2006-12-15 05:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think men are very simple. They generally mean what they say unless they're trying to get laid. The problem is most women over analyze the guys and miss what he's saying or trying to do. Take him for face value and you will probably find them easy to understand. Unless he's trying to get you in bed of course, then he'll say all kinds of things to get you there.
2006-12-15 05:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are really not so complicated--we all have so much more in common than we are different. When you work on being more empathetic, walk a day in another's shoes, and try to understand where people are coming from and what their motives are, their actions become much clearer.
2006-12-15 05:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thought that once, but I learned how to listen to what they are actually saying. Not was is being said. Complicated as it may sound/read, but it works and I have less peeved towards me. And living a calming and relaxing life
2006-12-15 05:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋