Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I babysit my brother and his wife two kids as a second job. My other job is being a sales associate and you if you ever worked in retail it's crazy during the holiday season. You are working extra hours. Anyway since the week of thanksgiving i've have only been given one day off per week. I watch my brother's kid five days a week. Anyway my brother's wife asked me to stay late (one hour)so she could go to the gym. When i told her that i only get one day off during the weekday, she acted as if she doesn't care. My question is should i stay behind late during the only day i have off, or should i tell her no. Keep in mind i've stayed late before so she could go to happy hour with her coworkers, she never ever offered me a ride to work or home unless it's convient for her

2006-12-13 04:48:07 · 21 answers · asked by queenzhottie78 2 in Family

My exes child hates me! When my ex and I were together she was cheating on me with my friend(s)... I went off on her in front of the kids, I know that was bad.

Now her youngest daughter who I raised from 1 to 8 hates me, she thinks I'm some mean guy. She loves me but she's scared of me.

I was pissed, I went off, unfortionately she just cant get it out of her head and I don't know how to address it with her. I cant just say "you'r mom is a hoe"

I still see the kids, I love them even though their not my blood, I still watch them on weekends so their mom can go play. She says she still has bad memories of it and last time she stayed at my house this weekend she woke at 3am unable to go back to sleep. I still have bad memories about it all. Her mom destroyed our family.

How do I address the issue? Without throwing her mom under the bus? I've told her that I love her and that those were tough times (2 years ago).

2006-12-13 04:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Cabbage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend has just gotten period, it bad...real bad...she hasnt gotten it for 3 months, and now she got it and it is BAD..what do i do..i am scared please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-13 04:46:50 · 31 answers · asked by aznromeo4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

on nights like this what do you do to give yourself a glow on the inside as it is miserable and horrible outside?

2006-12-13 04:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime I leave the house, my boyfriend looks at and downloads porn. He deletes it whenever he's done but sometimes he leaves it in the recycle bin on the desktop and i find it. I look at the history and there are tons of links of naked pictures of girls. We had an argument about it the other night and he ended up sleeping on the couch. Well while I was in the bed, he was looking at porn in the living room. I don't know what to do. I told him how it made me feel and he doesn't care obviously because he keeps doing it.

2006-12-13 04:46:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:45:15 · 7 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Friends

I just found out over the summer time that I am deadly allergic to bees. I have an Epi-pen and I am getting a medic alert bracelt but I need to know if bees are out in the winter time. I am not gonna carry a shot with me everywhere I go if there are no bees out.

2006-12-13 04:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well the reason why im mad at a friend is because im fully againast weed annd he knew that too and i am really mad at him for doing so and i think our friendship is in smoke because he never talked to me all day and i didnt too you think i should appoligie because of somthing i was fully agiast or not ???? plz help me with this one and please dont make stupid remarks

2006-12-13 04:44:15 · 10 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Friends

I need to know all expression and exclamation and shortform words used while chatting..

2006-12-13 04:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it OK for a wife to have a male friend....but switch it around. And it's NOT OK for a husband to have a female friend. I ask this questions because in a previous question the best answer was a wife can have a male friend. Last night my wife was complaining about my buddy who is married with a female friend. My buddy is no way interested in an emotionally relationship with this female friend.
This is like the question "why do wives complain about the toilet seat being up?".

2006-12-13 04:43:56 · 13 answers · asked by Neo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

besides, " that was good" ? we are not good at expresing ourselfs in bed, and i just needed some pointers, on what kind os kinky stuff to say to him- to make hes ego bigger :) thanks!

2006-12-13 04:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

which makes u more satisfied?
BUT HONESTLY

2006-12-13 04:42:24 · 3 answers · asked by B for bernadetta 3 in Singles & Dating

I love how romantic 'forsaking all others', 'in sickness and in health', ''till death do us part' and other traditional marriage promises sound. Judging from the number of divorces, many people are not up to the challenge of the traditional vows, and I think some people know it before they marry.

For couples not up to that lofty challenge, should options like open marraige, a five-year renewable marraige, or other terms be negotiable in in their wedding, or should everyone who wants to claim to be married stick with the traditional terms and do their best to live up to them?

2006-12-13 04:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by wayfaroutthere 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give something to my guy friends for Christmas. But i dont know what. Ive been friends for them for 3 1/2 months, so I dont know them that well. One of them is close to me. Were really good friends. Now the other one, its diffrent. I feel something for him. I kind of like him. And he likes me a little bit too. So for him Iwant something more special. well for both of them i want to give them something nice and less than $30.

2006-12-13 04:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have a nice day. :D

2006-12-13 04:40:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband never has, and doesn't even say happy birthday, but yet I go all out for his. Am I acting childish?

2006-12-13 04:39:52 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Christian [so is my bf] and my boyfriend is 19 and i am 23. Both of us recently got out of relationships earlier this year where we were both sexually active. But we've been together for 5 months and we have not had sex but we have been tempted to. but my bf is fairly aggressive about it. Since I am older, I try to make rational decisions... so I resist. I kind of feel like he is pressuring me to have sex because he knows that I want it just as bad as he does. But the twist is he's the musician at our church and his dad is the pastor. His dad has asked if we were having sex. I kind of feel awkward that the pastor thinks that i'm having sex with his son. I don't know if I should resist or give in to temptation.

2006-12-13 04:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by SugarPlum 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:38:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if you plan on NEVER meeting?

2006-12-13 04:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Singles & Dating

.... felt you up in the middle of the night while you were sleeping? Or in the morning before you woke up?

I only ask this because as a guy, there's not much better than waking up to find you wife in the middle of giving you a bIowjob or handjob, that's one of the best feelings on earth, but... does it work the same way when the roles are reversed?

2006-12-13 04:37:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question asking guys if they would watch gay male porn with their wives or girlfriends??? Would you do it? Don't be scared...answer the question...yes or no?

2006-12-13 04:37:41 · 11 answers · asked by Kokolicious06 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 32, I remember the pre kiss jitters and the weak knees. I remember being so nervous the first time I touched a woman. I remember the giddy phone calls and the anticipation. Does that ever come back? I'm single now, I wonder if I find the right woman will those feelings return?

2006-12-13 04:37:19 · 17 answers · asked by Cabbage 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets say a girl gets a love poem and she knows who it is from.Then she asks someone if they know who its from. If she asks what does it mean cause If she didn't like the guy who wrote it wouldn't she pretend nothing happened and not even bother asking anyone about it?

2006-12-13 04:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by Graviton 1 in Singles & Dating

Why wont he do anything?
Is he shy?
Or does he want me to make the first move...
I am bi-sexual...and the woman never have a problem going up to me...but the guys...ERRRRRRRRRRGGGGG!

2006-12-13 04:36:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a question. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and he's e-mailing exes and girls he once admired and is talking sexy to them, is that considered cheating? And also, he messed around with another girl on a school trip while I was in the hospital. She says they made out and there was a lot of "foreplay", what about that? Is that cheating. If so, what should I do about it? I'm still really upset about it.

2006-12-13 04:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by Manda 2 in Singles & Dating

I just came out of a relationship(heart broken) one month ago, but before that i met this guy and we went out a couple times (just friends) during my relationship. Now as i'm single he tells me he wants to be more than friends. He has a sweet personality, he's cute but the only thing is that he's 2yrs. younger than me & i'm just a little taller than him. The thing is, i'm not fully over my ex-bf i still love him alot and i don't know if i should start dating this other guy because #1 he's younger (i never dated anyone under my age), #2 it'll just be on the rebound. (don't get me wrong i really do like him)
What should i do ? What should i tell him?

2006-12-13 04:35:22 · 3 answers · asked by Yasmine_flower 2 in Singles & Dating

last year i talked to this guy almost everyday and he seemed to really like me. he would stare and smile whenever i looked at him. but now this year we almost never talk but i still get those smiles and stares. this past week or so we began talking again. today i was looking for him in a class i knew he was in and he caught me. when he caught me he just smiled and walked away. i am so confused but i never see those looks when he talks to other girls. what is he doing?thinking? why would he all of the sudden get shy?

2006-12-13 04:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by lalalalalalalalala23 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who well has an ex he talks to online and the thing is well they went out 3 months ago and they broke ever since and they just talk to eachother and stuff and sometimes they would have fights and stuff. the reason why my friend broke up with her was because of communication problems and because she was telling him what to do. he suppose to see her tommorrow but doubt it i mean he works at walmart and that can not cover and plane trip so basically he's not taking her seriously. i think he's playing with her so she can leave him alone. she actually think that he's gonna be in her life and she cant see that he's not gonna see her or will she be in his life.

2006-12-13 04:34:32 · 3 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

I'm almost 28 and have been on several dates recently but I am no longer nervous, or excited or feel any "butterflies".

Some people I have talked to said that this does happen to everyone as you get older but is that true?

That is one of the things I used to use to judge if the date went well (and if there is chemistry). Now, regardless of who it is, I feel normal and how I am just meeting someone.

2006-12-13 04:33:11 · 1 answers · asked by lost and confused 2 in Singles & Dating