Everytime I leave the house, my boyfriend looks at and downloads porn. He deletes it whenever he's done but sometimes he leaves it in the recycle bin on the desktop and i find it. I look at the history and there are tons of links of naked pictures of girls. We had an argument about it the other night and he ended up sleeping on the couch. Well while I was in the bed, he was looking at porn in the living room. I don't know what to do. I told him how it made me feel and he doesn't care obviously because he keeps doing it.
2006-12-13 04:46:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if we were married then it would it be more serious???
2006-12-13 04:52:01 · update #1
we've been together for 2 years i'm pregnant with our baby and we've had the internet for 2 years. he does it every single time i leave the house.
2006-12-13 04:53:40 · update #2
No, he's pretty normal.
2006-12-13 04:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question would be: Do you still get some when you want it? If no, and he just takes care of himself, he may have an addiction problem. It is called sex addiction and it is a very realistic and true addiction (just like tobacco or drugs). If you have told him how that made you feel and he is not doing anything about it, l can see 2 reasons for that: either he wants to stop and doesn't know how, or he just doesn't care that it makes you feel bad. I would ask him and see what he says, then depending on his answer, maybe you should just leave him and see what his reaction is to that.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-13 12:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are external, as long as its not child porn it's okay . you need to be creative; wear eye revealing lingerie to bed, learn how to strip for your man, seduce him, put a little more emphasis on yourself; get your hair, nails, make up re done. Once we get the man we have to do the same things we did in the beginning to keep them. Stand in front of him and dance, he needs to know that he's the best and so good(that's what those gurls be saying " mu mm, yes baby you're SO good, OH, baby. You've heard it)and if all that you do doesn't work then you need to seek professional help and go to the strip club and ask for advice.
2006-12-13 12:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a few things. How much does he do it. does he do it everytime you leave the house or is it just once in a while. Also, how long have you guys had a computer in the house? If it's fairly new, then he should get tired of it pretty soon. Check on it again in a couple of months.
2006-12-13 12:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he enjoys doing it. If he views these images while you are in bed, i think that it is an indication that he no longer finds your body attractive to look at. If you are over-weight or you have gained weight since you met him, then this may be a reason. It is possible that he may have become addicted to viewing porn.
2006-12-13 12:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, he is just obsessed. if he keeps doing it, and he doesn't listen to you then matters are called for reasons. in short, you might have to unattach yourself from him for a while.
because if he really loves you, in the first place, he would listen to what you say and he does his best to make you happy.
if you are not satisfied with the relationship you have now, then it's best to breakup rather than to be sorry.
but try to observe him for days. if he does do that and keeps on watching porn, chances are he takes for granted everything you said.
2006-12-13 12:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by cute_lil_pinay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then obviously he's addicted. you should try looking at porn, make him jealous, or just get over it. guys are guys, and no matter how much sex we get, porn is always liked.
2006-12-13 12:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would you rather have him looking at the real thing, at some other chicks house instead at home with you, it's just pictures, it's not cheating, be blessed that your man is at home looking at them
2006-12-13 12:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by q_tee262003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's only after a peice of a**. Yes he is addicted & if I were you I'd leave him.
2006-12-13 12:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you people stay with people like that and then complain about it. Lose the the As.s And move on.()
2006-12-13 12:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u are addicted to him...if he doesn't hear what ur saying then maybe he's not the right guy for you
2006-12-13 12:50:25 · answer #11 · answered by azulvioleta305 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋