Ok, I have a question. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and he's e-mailing exes and girls he once admired and is talking sexy to them, is that considered cheating? And also, he messed around with another girl on a school trip while I was in the hospital. She says they made out and there was a lot of "foreplay", what about that? Is that cheating. If so, what should I do about it? I'm still really upset about it.
2006-12-13 04:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by Manda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he indeed play around with another while you were hospitalized then it was certainly cheating. If he is e-mailing other girls and talking like a flirt and sexy to them that is also cheating. Certainly you can do better than this in a relationship so kick him to the curb and find another young man that will treat you with respect and like you are his one and only princess.
2006-12-13 04:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he's got to be cheating..i would think. My husbands not the greatest. He never talks sexy to anyone not even me. And his ex's still call him and he lets them run his life. After 4 yrs of it i told him to go and we got a divorce. Now he's back and he's telling them where to stick it. I know the saying Let them go and if they come back they love you..or how ever the uck it goes. Sometimes you just have to take enough then stick to your guns and move on. If it's right he will come around to you..and do what he should to keep you. Guys and women both like to have a back up's (that way if something goes wrong they still have someone.) That might even be why he still talks to the ex's. But, lifes to short to be misurable.
I hope this helps..
2006-12-13 12:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by my_gmc_rulz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only option is to leave this boyfriend behind...you can't tolerate such an act of disloyalty. Just move on....don't try to talk it out, don't deliver the information to him that you're leaving him, treat him in the same manner as he has treated you and just go. He'll be stunned, but don't look back and don't even consider giving him another chance. You must form the habit of looking out for your own best interest and this can't be good for your self esteem. So, move on girlfriend and good luck!
2006-12-13 12:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating, if the girl tell the truth. easily can be tested out by simply ask him some questions with traps. don't directly ask him. or have his friend ask him. He might brag to his friends. If you are sure he did. List all the things advantages for you to stay with him, disadvantages. compare them. if you decide you it's worth to still have your relationship with him.
Don't make a big deal with it. stay calm. Be nice to him. That wil make him bad if he didn't treat you nice back. Spend more time with him, so he doesn't have time to be with other girls. but some how I felt he really did, so if he did, it might happen again, you need to really consider if you want get over him.
2006-12-13 12:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by magictiger_007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are upset, then it's a problem. No other opinion is important here but your own. My opinion, since you asked is:
If you are the type to be turned on by sharing your guy, then no it's not a problem. If you want your man all to yourself, then dump him. Find a guy who forplay's only with you.
Good Luck.
2006-12-13 12:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the loser. He is definitely cheating on you. The only reason why men keep in touch with their exes is to have casual sex with them occasionally. What the hell did you think was going on? Wake up.
Are you stupid? Pay attention to what he DOES, not what he SAYS. Yes, your boyfriend can lie to you. Shocker, I know.
2006-12-13 12:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you love this guy, you've got to dump him. he cannot be trusted, he obviousy doesn't know how to be a boyfriend. Confront him and dump him, he'll feel stupid and regret what he did. And yes i would consider that cheating! Good luck! xx
2006-12-13 12:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah to me i think it is cheatin emailin old gurls. ive already caught mine doin that and tellin them that he loves them still and i told him to choose me or her. finally he realized that i have been with him thru everything, he stopped and doesnt get on the computer anymore. if they did all that while ur were in the hospital the true ? to ask him is do u even care or want to be with me anymore after doin that? it is considered cheatin but get this would these guys like it if we did all this to them. hell nooooo they woudnt. so just tell them that see what happens gurl.
2006-12-13 12:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by alyssa12222005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay means blowjobs handjobs, etc. he is cheating on you and if he had the audacity to do it while you were in the hospital then you should dump his sorry a**.
2006-12-13 12:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definately cheating. You should confront him about it first and if he doesn't seem like it is a big deal, then KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!!!
2006-12-13 12:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger_Grrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋