be polite and courteous, but not formal. i no I hate it when a guy in a tshirt is talking like a guy in a tux. no naughty jokes, because girls are generally more mature than boys and dont find them funny (plus u dont want ur 1st impression 2 come off as a sick pervert, do u?). if she doesnt want 2 talk 2 u, dont pressure her 2 pay attention. show off just a little bit, and dont act desperate. dont talk 2 her bout other girls. DO NOT TALK BOUT URSELF!!! BIG NONO! ask questions about her, she'll love that. flatter her, but not 2 much cuz then u just look stupid. if you have long hair then flip it back occasionally (that is soooo sexy!). if you have short hair (which my boyfriend does) then run ur fingers thru it slowly every ten minutes or so. wear nice deoderant (i LOVE axe but not everyone does). b.o. is awful. good luck....
2006-12-13 04:53:58
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answered by Sammy 2
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Chatting can be a lot of fun and it is easy. It is especially entertaining after you have spent a long day with the kids, just to have some grown up conversation. You get to meet interesting people from all over the world. For most people, their first time chatting is an almost scary experience. You hear about obnoxious users so you might be afraid to try it. After all, no one wants to go somewhere for fun and get verbally abused. Then, when you try it, you just do not know what to say and everyone is writing in shorthand with abbreviations, so you don't even understand half of what is being said. Just remember, everyone in that room had a first time experience and almost everyone will help guide you. Here are some suggestions to make your first time chatting experience fun and easy! For you old pros, you can brush up your chatting skills!
At About.com chat rooms, you can ignore them, simply by clicking on the obnoxious user's name, the click on the ignore user box. Also, if the ADM is in the room, he or she has the power to expel the obnoxious user out of the room. So do not let the fear of obnoxious users stop you. Almost everyone voluntarily follows chatting etiquette. Follow the rules of common courtesy just like you would in real life.
Sometimes, knowing what to say when you enter a chat room is hard! After the initial hello is over and where everyone is from has been discussed, silence may follow. When this happens, ask a question or you can share a funny story that happened to you. For instance a good question to ask is, "does anyone have any kids?" or "what hobbies is everyone interested it?". More good advice is available about striking up the right conversation. Before you know it, the conversation will start to flow.
To be chat savvy, there is just a few abbreviations you will need to know. For instance, a very common abbreviation is "LOL" that stands for Laughing Out Loud. You type this in when you find something funny or you are writing something that is meant to be funny. This helps a lot because when you type something, rather than then say it, someone else can't see your face or hear the tone of your voice, so they don't realize you are kidding around. If you have to leave to go get a drink or answer the phone, type in "brb" (be right back). That way, someone that has a question for you will wait, until you let them know that you are back. Another source of abbreviations used in chat is Express Yourself In Your Email and Chat . If you see an abbreviation you don't understand, just ask! I am sure the person that wrote it will be glad to explain it.
Chatting is very entertaining. There are usually many laughs and I am sure you have heard the saying, laughter is the medicine for anything that may ail you. Don't be shy come join us! Before you know it, you will be an old pro at chatting and a part of the global community, with friends all over the world! Relax and enjoy!
There really are not that many obnoxious people in chat rooms.
2006-12-13 07:58:21
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answered by Anonymous
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wel ur having a nice question dear.
actually the shortforms depends upon the type of chat ur having. n more over frankly speaking u better hv a chat in full forms n especially with gals its better u hv a chat in full form.
n still if u want to chat in short forms then here r a few one of them
brb- be right back
rofl-rolling on floor laughing
lol-laugh out loud
wb-welcome back
ty-than you
asl= age sex and location (if ur cahting with an unknow guy).
thru = through
are =r, you=u,
gn=good night
gm=good morning
np-no problem
gb=good bye
sd=sweet dreams
gl=gud luck
also use some guddies to impress her.k.
all the best n hopefully u will enjoy a lot.
2006-12-13 05:04:30
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answered by bkj 1
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I dont know local chat tips but call a livelinks or red hot hotlines theyre free hopefuly in your area.I know i have got a peice of *** from there quite a bit.You roll wit the punches good ones and bad ones but the good thing is they do not want to get attached.
2006-12-13 04:49:59
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answered by javi 2
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I know this guy , its been 3 years now lol, but we have never met yet. we both like eachover. Course its normal it deosnt matter.. Im seeing him this summmer, so exited!!
2016-03-13 06:31:11
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answered by Anonymous
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lol-laugh out loud
brb- be right back
rofl-rolling on floor laughing
np-no problem
wb-welcome back
ty-than you
others...too busy sorry.
2006-12-13 04:48:34
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answered by Pyromaniac 4
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you want all the secrets that we learned for years without any fee? no way.
2006-12-13 20:35:54
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answered by Anonymous
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be clear better use full words and dont always baost
~~have fun~~
2006-12-13 04:49:37
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answered by Angad 4
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