What should i do?

Question

I just came out of a relationship(heart broken) one month ago, but before that i met this guy and we went out a couple times (just friends) during my relationship. Now as i'm single he tells me he wants to be more than friends. He has a sweet personality, he's cute but the only thing is that he's 2yrs. younger than me & i'm just a little taller than him. The thing is, i'm not fully over my ex-bf i still love him alot and i don't know if i should start dating this other guy because #1 he's younger (i never dated anyone under my age), #2 it'll just be on the rebound. (don't get me wrong i really do like him)
What should i do ? What should i tell him?

Answer 1

well it's true about being on the rebound because that's what it would be. So I would suggest that you take it easy.

Think thorouhly before making any decision.

Get over your ex. before getting into anything and be sure you want to before you do.

Just tell him that you are not ready to get into any form of serious relationship yet being that your break up is this fresh and that you need some time because you don't want to get involved and then he gets hurt as a result of the fact that you did not get over your ex.when you decided to talk to him.

He should be able to understand this if he's a friend and really cares for you.

heart break is not easy but you'll be o.k. Good luck.
Take care of yourself and do enjoy your Christmas.

Answer 2

You should have hot sex with your new guy. Drop the ex. He is finished. If he wasn't, you wouldn't have broken up with him in the first place. One of the lowest things you can do to yourself is to get back together with an ex. That is low low low. That means that you are such a loser, you can't find anybody else to be with you.

Enjoy what you have right now because it will not be around forever.

Answer 3

tell him you feel like he would be a rebound boyfriend and that he should wait until you get over your ex or can at least feel comfortable dating someone else.