IHello,
I am new to the site. I sure could us some insight or advice right now. My fiancée has 3 daughters and one lives at home and the other two do not. This is the conflict and I am unsure what to do. We have had alot of problems over the year we have been together. The last time we broke up, he told his kids almost every detail of our fights. Now, they do not want much to do with me. He has not told them that we are seeing each other again, and he is not ready to talk to them now even with the Christmas holiday approaching. He said he would loss creditability with his kids and he admits it was a mistake to tell them so much. My son lives with his dad and will not be with me Christmas, in fact I have no one hear expect him and I thought we would be spending it together. He does not want me to come over and spend it with him and his kids. He says he has to stay there the entire time, until they go home sometime Christmas day, and then he will come spend time with me. I am so hurt and I am unsure if I am not seeing this right, but it seems this is not away to treat someone you love and if I am being foolish to stay in such a relationship. I do love him but I am lost. I do not want to spend Christmas Eve alone and most of Christmas day. I asked him to at least come over for a couple hours Christmas Eve and he said he would not do that. Period I almost want to end our relationship because he giving his girls control over our relationship and do not know if it can get better?
2006-12-13
05:21:46
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