this how it went saturday night it was girls night out and guys night out and he told me that he would pick me up at 2:00am and never did they decided to go to the casino and went with lots of people i am worried about things that happen. we haven't talk for 3 days nothing so what do i do
2006-12-13 05:17:15 · 22 answers · asked by melissa s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm, him not picking me up would set me off right there! He is your HUSBAND and you both should be honest about everything! You should talk to him...but do it in a way where he can't back out of the conversation by saying he has this or that to do... You are HIS WIFE!!!!!
2006-12-13 05:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by BrookieB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the key for you is communication. Obviously not talking isn't helping your situation. So talk. Find out what he was doing at the casino. Find out why he didn't pick you up. Did he call to tell you that he wasn't going to pick you up or were you just left waiting? Also, do you have reasons to be suspicious of your husband? If not, then simple communication could resolve your issues.
2006-12-13 13:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a date to pick up his WIFE, & then he STOOD HER UP!
I think that puts him in the doghouse until he makes a full & sincere appology. No excuses, just an appology.
Besides you seem more concerned with something that may or may not have happened at the casino.
"Just stick to the facts maam, just the facts". Like they used to say on Dragnet. The fact is he wasn't there for you like he said he would. Isn't that enough?
Talk to him for sure, but accept nothing short of a proper appology, plus a promise that it will NEVER happen again.
2006-12-13 13:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serve his @ss with what he deserves - divorce papers. Nobody can stay married when they are partying with other people all the time, for this very reason - trust erodes. So ditch the partying unless you are together, or just accept the fact that this marriage is not going to work real well.
2006-12-13 13:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you both been out on these before? He might just be playing with you. After all, he might not believe your story in terms of what you did that night. Maybe you had a male stripper or something. Give him some hints that something wild may have happened and then he'll reveal his night.
2006-12-13 13:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try doing things together because that girls night out stuff is a crock. it is more about wives wanting to feel wanted and sexy still.
Not what i want in a wife or as a hubby.
So, limit the time spent away and do something together.
2006-12-13 13:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worried about what "things that happen". I think it's pretty lousy he left you stranded at 2AM. I can see why you aren't on speaking terms with him. Of course if you were at Foxwoods or the Mohegan Sun I'm sure things were jumping. Still...that doesn't negate having left you stranded.
2006-12-13 13:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was in no condition to drive and doesn't want to admit it? Perhaps he was having too much fun and forgot? Whatever the reason, he forgot, and you will always remember that.
Ask him if he wants to stop girls/guys nights out and the two of you go out instead. Once a week!
2006-12-13 13:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste any more time on a guy who would leave you hanging at 2:00 am! He's inconsiderate and if he cared enough he would have been there.
2006-12-13 13:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he didn't apologize??? He sounds like a bad husband right off the bat. For one, he took off and never came back to get you. He also must not have been too concerned about your safety. He also never apologized, and is just letting you stress about it. Sounds like a GREAT guy.......Not.
2006-12-13 13:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋