And the boy that your in love with is your good friend from a long time ago. And somtimes he acts like he likes you and somtimes he dont.
2006-12-13 05:21:50 · 28 answers · asked by naomi r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you quit being a whore and choose. i think it is pretty shitty that you are doing this to your bf that you love sooooooo much.
2006-12-13 05:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question should be who do you most love and have in common, which one is mature enough for your speed. Obviously you know you can't date them both, it can be hard to choose since you like them both , but choosing the one you really want to be with is easy. Better stick with your boyfriend if you love him, and let the other guy your in love with go so he can move on with his life. If don't love your boyfriend you better tell him and let him know that you are sorry but you don't think it is going to work out and that you are in love with another and how long it has been going on so he does not think you are cheating on him majorly. If you and the other guy want to be friends well that should be ok as long as you and the othe guy know your limits and not try anything behind your bofriends back and you would never know he was checking up on you unless he starts acting weird and questions you, that is where your problems with start, remember it is up to you waht you decide to but do it wisely.
2006-12-13 05:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere along the way, you lost the spark and the reason for WHY you LOVE your boyfriend. Your friend reminds you of fun, loving times that cause you to have excitement and energy in your heart. You can always FALL BACK IN LOVE with your boyfriend... if you want. Also, think about this: the boy you say you are in love with, you are more in love with his personality, kind ways, generous behavior... all the things you want more of from your boyfriend.
Good Luck.
2006-12-13 05:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose one guy and let the other one go. Do not string along both. I find it hard to believe that you are "in love" with both of them. Do you feel like both of these guys could be the father of your 20,000 children? Will they love you and support you and vise versa? Both guys might be caring and have great attributes and they both might be attractive to you. There are a lot of great guys out there and this is a good test of your character. Are you able to be in a monogamous relationship and acknowledged that there are other great guys without falling for them. If not, then maybe you shouldn't be exclusive with any guy right now.
2006-12-13 05:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shella, seem babe he doesn't love you, believe I somewhat were there, i'm interior an same boat, i love him too, yet I somewhat ought to face my floor, this guy has harm me alot, he has ruined my international and my targets, and that i do not choose an same for you, get out at the same time as you'll all of us have money complications, he doesn't care, at the same time as they locate us weak they'll prey on us, it type of feels he has moved on and also you're nevertheless are waiting for him, it truly is going to no longer take position even even with the reality that he begged you're taking him lower back, please help your self and do the right element get out, he will smash you, your existence and your targets and hopes.. i'm sorry this isn't the answer you want, yet thats existence. good luck
2016-11-26 01:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by spadafora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just to tell you this I would ask him straight up and tell him dis aint a damn playing matter tell him you cant keep on waiting on his *** tell him that im worrying about breakin up wit ma man just you are playing these ******* games so get damn serious! But wait is you man treating you right ! P.S can you email me @
sweetyaya93@yahoo.com
:>)Holla
And by the way dont listen to these other ppl dat are answering yo question dey just saying dat cuz
1) they think just cuz somethin fine comes along you have to drop a GREAT damn relationship for another cute person who cant treat ya rigt and aint nothin but a TRIFLIN' AZZ ****@!
YO you just really need to focus on you !! You are BEAUTIFUL
WITH orWITHOUT A DAMN MAN!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't listen toBRAD he doesn't know wat the *** hes talking about!!!!DNT forget to Email me OKAY!!!!!!!!!!! Or just have this boy as a friend cuz its bettah 2 have him as dat or nothin @ all!!
2006-12-13 05:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~*~B3@UTY_IZ_M@_N@M3~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow you heart, and i guess you don't love the guy you are with at the moment. well to me if the guy you love loves you or like you too, then you have to let him know, but if you know that the guy you lve does not know that you love him, then 4get about him, cos what is happening between you and your boy friend is what would happen if he accept you.
2006-12-13 05:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with everyone involved. There is nothing worse than being cheated on or lied to, so make sure your honest with them. It may hurt one of them, but in the long run it's much easier.
Good Luck!
2006-12-13 05:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to find out what you want to do. Do you want to take your chances and find out if your long time friend likes you back? And if he doesn't, what happens next? Its possible to care about two people, but remember that you can't have them both because its not fair to either one of them. You need to decide who's best for you.
2006-12-13 05:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you let the current BF know so he can find a second person to fall in love with.
2006-12-13 05:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Myself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if you didn' t have a boy friend then he would have already made his move. Get alone with him in a semi-romantic setting and see what happens. If nothing then your just friends, but if the tension begins to climb...
Tell us how you feel afterward.
2006-12-13 05:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by gatewlkr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋