Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

Iam 19 and my new next door neighbour who is 32 , keeps makeing sexual seductive gestures towards me. I think she wants to sleep with me what do i do yes she is very atractive and i know she is single

tell me why i should do it , and why i shouldint do it

2006-12-13 04:57:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ANYTHING that can bleed for five whole days... and LIVE...?

2006-12-13 04:57:36 · 16 answers · asked by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a guy that likes to flirt with me-tell me he thinks I'm "hot" and that I have a great personality..but we don't like each other as anything more than a friend. The guy that I'm with right now is the love of my LIFE, but sometimes he "doesn't have time" to stop and tell me he thinks I'm hot, cute, sweet, funny, or anything positive for my ego. I don't want to say anything to him about not telling me those things, though, because he's really sensitive, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. But me and the "other guy" never touch each other, not even a friendly hug or handshake, and we never talk about anything sexual. I'm just wondering-is this wrong?

2006-12-13 04:57:19 · 5 answers · asked by yourfaceisanugget 1 in Singles & Dating

OKAY SO THESE GIRLS TAKE PICS OF THEIR CLEAVAGE AND POST IT, I GOT GUYS CHECKIN OUT MY BOOTY ALL THE TIME AND YA DON'T SEE ME POSTING THAT. ARE THEY LOOKING FOR ATTENTION OR WHAT'S UP WITH THAT????

2006-12-13 04:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by Erika 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i were together on and off for 8 years dating about. We have been married for 3 1/2 years almost 4 years now. I dont understnad what i did wrong.We had lots of sex we were creative i tried out many different positions,oral, different places sometimes public, and since i believe in always trying something at least once anal because he wanted to try it out.He was getting sex every day of the month he wanted minus the 3-4 days i had my period.While i was pregnant we had sex till the day i went into labor matter of fact contractions started during sex!We had to wait 6 weeks after our daughter was born to have sex again and he cheated on me during this time with his secratary.I exercised through my entire pregnancy to keep fit because i have never been out of shape and took care of myself.I only gained 15 pounds and i lost it in about 3 months after the baby. I am 5 ft 6 and 114 pounds now our daughter is 3.He still is cheating on me with different women?why?

2006-12-13 04:56:22 · 50 answers · asked by Aibell W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-13 04:56:18 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:55:34 · 21 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a married man for about two months, its been really good for us both, as it just happened and we followed our feelings, however last week everything was okay then he came over to my house which he organised to do and we were fine and we were about to have our first sexual experience together and he stopped. He kept saying he really wants this, but he can't as its playing on his mind, then left without any explanation other than saying Sorry. I feel so bad, I have spent the last 7 days absolutely depressed that he has now walk away from me without the respect of just talking to me. I will be seeing him next week on a business lunch, and I want to say something to him to try and close all of this, but im not sure if it will make me feel even worse than i do, but I want some answers from him, to why he instigated, chased me only to walk away from me. I have told him i respect him for his decision, but I feel so sad.

2006-12-13 04:55:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I like and I don't know if he likes me or not. Sometimes he acts like it but he's also talking to another girl, but always is annoyed with her and claims he doesn't like her that much. Anyways, my friend and him get along really well, but she says that he's just trying to get to me through her. But I don't really know? does he like her or is he really interested in me?

2006-12-13 04:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by person 1 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved across country a few years ago with my cousin/roommate. We were very close as children, but as adults we hardly knew each other. From the start there were problems. I know I can be set in my ways so I agreed to be patient with the situation under the belief that things would get better.

Well, things never got better, they got progressively worse. I am now to the point where I actually can not stand the sight of her. She is loud, rude, filthy, irresponsible (especially when it comes to money & paying the bills on time) and a bigot. She is ethnic herself yet she harbors these classist opinions about other people of various race and education that makes her seem like a black David Duke. I find some of her comments disgusting which is why I barely talk to her.

I want to leave but I somewhat feel pressure to stay. Knowing how careless she is I feel like if I am not around she will end up homeless and our family will blame me. I don't want to cause more friction. Help!

2006-12-13 04:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by coca_chupa 3 in Family

2006-12-13 04:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl via MSN about a month ago. I have loads of fun chatting with her... she's friendly, cute, funny and beautiful at the same time.
The problem is i think i like her.
She already has a boyfriend but she seems unhappy with him..
once she said she had more fun chatting with me then with her bf.
Should i tell her what i feel now or what ?

2006-12-13 04:54:04 · 2 answers · asked by Stalloyde 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to break up with this guys GENTLY. I've been back and forth with him and I'm ready to call it quits for good! I've tried to break up w/him before BUT to no avail. I shut down in a siutuation like that and am close lipped, I hate hurting people's feelings. so I would rather for the guy just go away. I'm good at avoiding phone calls but I don't think this man will let that happen. I want to break up w/him today. NEED HELP

2006-12-13 04:53:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 04:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, crazy about a guy who i know feels the same way about me. but he has'nt said anything!! should i get the ball rolling or wait for him to ask me out?

2006-12-13 04:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by j B 2 in Singles & Dating

Surely it will give the impression they are married, why do people do it then?

2006-12-13 04:52:29 · 45 answers · asked by clifford k 2 in Weddings

is it normal for a husband to work for ten hours a day and then come home then leave for another hour and a half everynight? my husband does it to me on all four of his ten hour workdays. i mean on the three days that he does not have to work i cant go anywhere without him wich i love, but those four days he works i only get to see him for two and a half hours before i have to go to bed so i can get up on time for my job in the morning! should i be conserned that he is cheeting on? i love him to death. maybe when he ells me that he wants my to be pregnant he was just l telling me a lie. i dont understand him half the time. we have only been married for two and a half months but we have been together for the last four years. he just started to do this to me a month before we got married. should i follow him one night that he leaves?

2006-12-13 04:52:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say a guy and a girl are friends in High School. Guy really likes girl but is too shy to say anything. Girl graduates and guy stays cause he is 2 years behind her. Years and years later they meet up again out of the blue. Girl gives guy number. Relationship starts and feelings flare up. Guy starts to fall for girl.

Is guy really falling for girl or has he always had the feelings and they are just picking up where they left off from High School?

2006-12-13 04:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this guy friend that i like but i cant tell if he likes me too. i feel like he gives hints but then i think maybe not. i havent told him i like him incase he says that 'i don't see you in that way' He makes fun of me sumtyms and always asks for help in a subject we both study (hes in my class!!) but when wer around college at lunchtime he sumtyms pretends that i dont even exist! is this normal? is he jus bein a gud mate or is there a chance he mite like me?

2006-12-13 04:51:33 · 4 answers · asked by Shaz 2 in Singles & Dating

What should i do?

2006-12-13 04:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

attracted to a girl to want to chase her?

2006-12-13 04:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mother In Law says stuff like this to me. I'm trying to teach myself to identify the signs so I quit letting her get me all worked up. I know, "If you love me, you'll..." is one of them. What are some other examples?

2006-12-13 04:50:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who are these guys

2006-12-13 04:49:21 · 14 answers · asked by butch 1 in Singles & Dating

what would u do if ur boyfriends best Girl friend made up a nick name for him (Coco Puff) She calls him dat ALL the time and he responds to it... and she leaves comments on his pic. posted on myspace saying " damn coco u look soooooo hot in ur pictures u look hotter then ever"...I got mad..............What would u have done??

2006-12-13 04:48:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i tend to argue at least 3 times a week. He works out of town through the week so most of our disagreements are over the phone. When we're together on the weekend we never argue....but most of our time is spent apart and we end teh disgreement with in the same hour or so.

2006-12-13 04:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by j_nicole1 2 in Singles & Dating

Why?

2006-12-13 04:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

hanging out with this friend of his. he is really bad influence, and he is an a** hole i don't like him bacause of this reason. my bf doesn't see it. and he kinda changed, because he always smokes now, and some times i want to be with him and he desides to smoke "since is already there then why not" but i know my bf loves me is just if he could stop hanging with this boy just to smoke.

2006-12-13 04:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by sweet angel 2 in Friends

I saw a grown man at the pool yesterday with pierced nipples. I was fascinated. But I wondered if he gets discriminated against. That's not very common.

I wondered if that would suggest he is into something alternative.

2006-12-13 04:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by MBA Grad Student 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help here. what do u do when u see a girl in the market and u find her very pretty all u wanna do is be friends with and a friendly flirt and get her email id or phone no. nothing more

2006-12-13 04:48:08 · 2 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating