I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again
2006-12-13 04:56:18 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at her third finger for any ring, if no ring then go ahead
First look for banks advertisment on low interest crap or whatever
Then start asking her questions about those new scheme
Look into her eyes when she is answering
Then make some funny comments like "oh damn I don't know whether I can afford it or not...wooh"
Then talk to her like this with confidence....."so me and my buddies are having party this weekend, Would u like to come on over if u have some time? Yea, feel free to bring ur friends as well"
I know there won't be any parties....but atleast try to get her contact info
But be confident that's they key.
2006-12-13 05:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the time of day ask her what she is doing for lunch or dinner. If she is doing something, ask her if she's free tomorrow. That way even if she didn't get the hint the first time, the second time around comes across as you're not just inquiring but that you are asking. If she gives you a blank look, already have some place in mind and tell her, there's a great (insert cuisine here) restaurant in (insert area - best if in general neighborhood of bank) that I'd love to take you too.
Now you're confident, bold and definitely interested.
Assume she's single until she tells you otherwise. Don't say one of those, your boyfriend or husband is a lucky man lines. They are too corny. Too, too corny. If she tells you have one, be casual about it, you can say something like, oh well, bad luck then.
If she declines for any reason be graceful, and whenever you do see her afterwards just be as pleasant as if it had never happened. Smile and nod.
2006-12-13 05:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by just the facts, mam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
witout any other info .. I would take a dual pronged approach first next time you go to her window make sure you're nice and neat and feel her out to see if there is any appeal. Ask a question about some type of banking and see if she blows you off or give you extra attention or eye contact. If there is appeal for you (you'll know) Put your name and number on a small piece of paper and have it ready the next time you go without saying anything slip it in there before you walk away leaving only a smile. This is high risk all or nothin' stuff here, not to be attempted by the faint of heart!
2006-12-13 05:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tony M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip her a note after you make a deposit. Try not to look like a bank robber though. On the note tell her that you are uncomfortable asking this right next to the other teller's. Tell her what you think of her, ask her if she is seeing anyone, and ask her if she would be interested in going out somtime. The next time you go in. Ask her about the note and if you can get her phone number to set something up.
2016-05-23 18:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk up to her confidently and ask her if she would like to have lunch with you sometime. Say it like you don't care if anybody else hears because confidence is sexy. besides if the other teller hears it could only help, because she'll probably talk to her about how nice that was of you to approach her.
when asking a girl out, don't worry if she has a boyfriend. if she does, she'll tell you and you bow out gracefully. give her your info on business card or piece of paper. but make sure you get her info and call her because a woman can appreciate a man who is in charge.
2006-12-13 05:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Ash ker how her weekend was Use the few mintues you have with her at the bank to get to know her a little more. . After a few times throw in the bf question, if she doesnt have one ask her for her number" .
2006-12-13 04:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by PinkPrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should slip a little letter telling her ur interested in her and want to know if sh'd like to go out sometime and leave ur name and number if she calls u take it frm there.
2006-12-13 05:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in the same situation check and see if there is a ring and no one is listening u dont want to gewt her into trouble and it would hurt your chances.
2006-12-13 05:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by don d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after u deposit or whatever - and get that slip back - look @ it and be like u forgot something - hand it back 2 her and be like "your number?" hahah might work
2006-12-13 05:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you give her your check to cash put a little note with it that says............"i like you do you like me? circle yes or no"
2006-12-13 04:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋