2006-12-13 04:55:34 · 21 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and no. We met through a dating service so it was a blind date. I got to the restaurant first and saw a guy sitting at the bar wearing a shirt like what my date had described. I thought if that's him, I am leaving. The man wasn't that attractive, but what got me was he was such a liar because the shirt was the only thing that matched the description I had been given. He also was sitting with a group of men. Who brings their pals on a first date? He was the loudest one in the group and the more I heard his voice I realized it couldn't be my date. We had spoken on the phone.
The real date came shortly after. He was a vast improvement, but I still wasn't thinking "what a hottie." Just that he was o.k. and hadn't lied about his appearance. I did have a fleeting thought of "country bumpkin" because of the ugly shoes he was wearing and the fact that his pants were "high waters."
He seemed shy and nervous which I thought was cute. When he went to the restroom and came back, he smiled and said "at least you didn't leave." We were sitting at a table where one side was a booth and the other a rather uncomfortable chair, which I was in. I also was getting a little chilly. A couple drinks later I asked if he would mind if I sat beside him on the booth citing the reasons. He said "sure" and later told me he thought I really just wanted to snuggle up to him.
Well after I sat beside him at the booth, my little "shy guy" got brave. And something happened when I got close to him-something like a rush. Soon we were kissing and I wasn't thinking about his shoes or anything like that. It was getting kind of late and very few people were there-all adults so we weren't embarrassing anybody. Actually a couple of old men at the bar seemed quite entertained by our PDA.
Anyway, my guy asked about going somewhere more private so we could "relax." By then, I felt like I was in a trance and I hadn't really drank that much. It was because of him. I agreed and we went to his apartment. I remember thinking I must be crazy to go to an apartment alone with a man I just met and I don't recommend it, btw.
His kisses and touches and those soulful blue eyes were too much for me. Yep, we ended up in bed that night, too. So at first, I just thought he was o.k. and was more attracted to his personality than his looks. After we went back to his place, I thought he was the hottest, sexiest man ever. And I still do. Been going 6 1/2 years now, married for four this New Year's Eve.
2006-12-13 06:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Stormz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. That came later when I got to know him a little more. WHen I first meet him I was physically attracted to him but not sexually attracted for me the sexual attraction came later in the relationship. But its hard to go back in time and tell you exactly when in the relationship I felt sexual attraction.
2006-12-13 13:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because I wasn't looking for a partner. I have a tendency to not look at men in that way. After the first date I saw something else in him. Everyday after that he's gotten sexier by the second!
2006-12-13 13:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be with someone if you didn't find them attractive? You meet and fall in love to pro-create, which takes having sex, which means you have to be aroused. Some people's standards might be lower then others but...
Jeez I was expecting some kind of punch line.
2006-12-13 13:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by gatewlkr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - I hated him. I mean HATED him. I admit I thought he was good looking, but I couldn't stand to be around him. Our paths didn't cross again for over 5 years, and then we were in bed the first night, and haven't wanted to get out yet.
2006-12-13 13:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Michele S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We were in bed together the night we met.
Not that I would recommend it, but we have been together ever since. Married 7 years.
2006-12-13 12:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definetelly. Of course I was real young at the time, too young for him, so I had to wait a few years for him to come around. I finally snagged him though.
2006-12-13 13:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no , not at first we were just really good friends . I had cancer when I first met him and was going through recovery sex was the last thing I was thinking about . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-13 13:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, extremely
2006-12-13 13:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Todd V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah and still am. She's the sexiest thing ever to enter my life and is even sexier when I see her with her son.
2006-12-13 13:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by The Plague 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋