Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

I've seen all these charities everywhere wanting donations, but I haven't been able to find a way to get assistance. I am living with my parents with my husband and daughter. We need to get assistance. We can't live in government apartments due to my husband's record. He's not working and I only get paid $6 an hour with 15 hours a week. He's been looking for work everywhere. I think his record is preventing a lot of things from happening. He's trying to change his life around. Sometimes it seems like we'd be better off if he went back into a life of crime. I know it's not true, but I feel so hopeless. People are judging me for staying with him and I know I'm doing what is right. It's not what is easy, but it's right. I hope someone can help my family and not judge us. My husband is a hard worker, but he can't get work. My parents don't like him so they are making us miserable. I do work for them and it's never right. They want to split us up, but I can't let that happen. Please help us

2006-12-12 02:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-12 02:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 02:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 and half years. He recently got offered a great job on the other side of the country and wants me to go with him. I asked him of our future about getting married and he says that he is never getting married. We are only 23 years old so is it that he is young and immature, not ready, being stupid? But should i leave my friends, job, and family for this man?

2006-12-12 02:41:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are you hoping for this Christmas and do you think you'll get it? What do you really, really want?

2006-12-12 02:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Because now that you needed their help too nobody could stay but you stay with them when they had problem and helped to solved it no matter what it is..

2006-12-12 02:41:11 · 5 answers · asked by franky pau 1 in Friends

My boyfriend of 6 months, Doesnt think I need guy friends. I guy I was talking (hanging out, talking, not dateing, but it was open to maybe soon) to when we first met emailed me. He is just a friend. It was nothing more and I dont cheat on my boyfriend. I havent talked to him in a few months. When me and my boyfriend got together I tlaked to him a few times around my boyfriend just so he saw I wasnt "hiding" him. I dont want to hurt my boyfriend and talk to this guy if he doesnt want me to but know my boyfriend thinks I will just talk to him behind his back.

2006-12-12 02:39:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my nephew just lost his dad to a rare form of bone cancer, and i would like to have a dream come true for him,. he will be turning 16 on the 24 th of december, and he just completed his drivers ed. course. he was planning on getting a 4x4 pickup truck , but now with the death of his dad, that dream will likely not come true. he is a honor roll student who has high plans on going to college, his dad died at the young age of 41 yrs old.it is heart wrenching to feel so useless , and all we know to do for my nephew is to be supportive. i am hoping that someone generiusitity will be able to make a young man dream come true. thank you

2006-12-12 02:37:37 · 1 answers · asked by june r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sent my crush a msg saying that we should hangout sometime, since that time, a friend of his wrote a comment to him on a site saying to make a move on me. He sent me a msg few days ago and said "i just got out of a long relationship and right now i'm not looking for any committments, i'm enjoying the single life right now cuz of the space and freedom. Sorry"

Does that mean we might hang out later on? What is the deal here?

2006-12-12 02:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To all of you that are married or engaged.... did you have a feeling that you were getting engaged before it happened?? Did you have the intuition that you were going to marry soon?? I have a big feeling that my boyfriend is going to ask me to marry him soon.... does that mean anything?

2006-12-12 02:36:57 · 24 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Weddings

Both of us are in 7th grade (b4 i tell u anything else.) I like this guy, and he usaly only goes for popular people. Popular is rich,PRETTY(big part of popular), nad has so many friends u cant name them all. Now he is only semi-popular, like me. SO he likes to go for the girls he has NO chance with what so-ever. But he obviously doesnt know that so he asks them out, to the dance, ect. And he has also known for a year that i have liked him. And i am practically in LOVE with him, he is all i evr think about and talk about. But since i am not rich that makes me not 1 of those popular kids that he likes. him not likeing me.....Thats just one problem. The other problem is EVERYTIME i think he is starting to like me (he would talk 2 me say good things bout me, practicly stare at me in choir class, ect.) he asks one of those popular people out!!!! And it hurts me beacuse i really like him and i am not sure if he will ever like me unless sombody threatens him......thats not gonna happen! LOL.

2006-12-12 02:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by ilovebrooks3112 1 in Singles & Dating

He is really into BDSM and it was fun for awhile, but I don't know that I want to do it forever...also, I found pictures of his ex girlfriends on his digital camera (naked ones) and he is very clingy and possessive and insecure. He is also a pig (his apartment is so messy, I wouldn't be surprised to find Jimmy Hoffa under the piles of crap in there!). I also just got an e-mail from one of my ex's (who broke up with me just because of bad timing) and he wants me back. What to do?

2006-12-12 02:36:31 · 17 answers · asked by landime9 2 in Singles & Dating

sorry but this part 2 of my other question.....

im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i know i cant make her like me but i wish i could get her more intersted...

i have talked to her before and asked her to go places and sometimes it seems she likes me and other times she saids she has to do something like i just asked her to go see a movie with me this weekend ans she said she doesnt know

so i was wondering if i should continue to like her and try to get her to be more interested or if i should just let it go or ignore her or something

i would like the advice
thank you

2006-12-12 02:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

Partner expressed interest in me taking pole dancing lessons. I think it would be fun and would add an element to the bedroom.

However, when I suggested he also take the lessons .... conversation went into the dumper.

I would love to see him work his magic on a pole ..... why is this such a foreign concept to him.

Guys --- Would you dance for your lady
Ladies -- Would you enjoy your man dancing for you

2006-12-12 02:35:17 · 9 answers · asked by cdnponygirl 3 in Singles & Dating

i had a party and made out with this gurl and i am the first gurl she has ever kissed and she told me she liked it well i had her over last weekend and she told me she liked me and i like her a lot. she is everthing i want in a gurl only one problem i am 20 and she is 15 almost 16 she told me that she loved me to. i have been threw what she is goin threw befor i fell madly in love with the first gurl i kissed and we dated on and off for bout a year well i asked her if she was absolutly sure bout her feelings and she made it a point that she was she ****** told me i stole her heart and i can tell that she is telling the truth by the way she looks at me well i figured that she is just goin threw a phase so i wont get to close i will let her figure out who she is but i do like her she is really cute and has a great personality. i have asked others and some tell me to let her down easily but i dont want to break her heart cuz she said she has never felt this way be4 what do i do????????

2006-12-12 02:34:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting attached to him i know i shouldnt but i cant help it..hes sooooooo sweet like when i was in culinary w/ him and i was crying cuz a girl i knew died in a car accident, he looked like he was gonna cry b/c i was...and he asked if there was anything he could do to make me feel better..and i said i needed some ******* ice cream...so he went to the kitchen and got an ice cream scoop, and said its hard to believe they dont have any ******* ice cream here....and he kisses me as much as possible when the instructors arent looking....and maybe i should get attached...but i worry hes just foolin me like the rest....guys only want me if there desperate (theres no way HE could be) or if they want sex (which the learn they will not get) and i worry and i told my self i wasnt gonna get hurt again...but im falling for him and i dunno whats wrong with me...why do i like him so much? he makes me laugh and smile so much it hurts and he listens when i talk why do i feel so strongly for him??

2006-12-12 02:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering, do women like hearing foreign accents during phone sex? I am an Australian and for some reason I really like american accents and some European ones. Although I havent actually done this much, a woman's voice with a foreign accent really does it for me, and I wondered if the same thing happend for ladies?

2006-12-12 02:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, I talk to this girl on the internet who ive known for a couple of months and she only lives 10 minutes away and wants to meet me as friends but im a shy guy and dont have much experience..should i not meet her to save her the disapointment?

2006-12-12 02:31:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

thats what i would like to know

2006-12-12 02:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am tired of making a certain person the center of my life. Mostly because this person is not reliable to stick around all the time, especially when things get tough.

I want to learn to depend on myself to make me happy, and whole along with secure, financially, emotionally, etc.

I guess in a way, I am asking, how do you turn down the level of love you have for a person, so that when they arent there, it doesnt hurt as bad.

2006-12-12 02:31:15 · 20 answers · asked by chahta_ndn_girl01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, could anyone tell me why (some) fully grown men want you more after you kick them to the curb? They don't treat you right when they have you (even if you're not "easy"), but when you leave they want you back and can't stand it when another man pays attention to you?

2006-12-12 02:30:36 · 23 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex who turns up all the time and then texts me to say he won't come round again.

I have asked him to meet me this time as i'm fed up of the yo-yoing.

He won't meet me to do it properly. He says if he see's me that he won't be able to do it.

I suspect its more that he has no intention of stopping turning up!

What do you think?

Can you tell me if you are male or female if you do me the honour of answering my question

2006-12-12 02:30:12 · 21 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

Well my ex left me over a year ago & I had my son July 3rd. He went back to his ex in AR who has his daughter. (who is almost 2) then when she found out I was pregnant of course she became pregnant too(their kid is like 2.5 months junior to my son). Well now they have 2 kids and last month (well end of october) he married her. Her mom bought the rings and her dad paid for the marriage. It was just in a courthouse.. He didnt tell his bro about it til I told his bro to ask him and he said "yeah." then he didnt talk about it again til he called his bro after being married and he said "well im married"
Doesnt seem that he wanted it. Do people still force people to marry a girl they knock up in the south?
the whole time he was with me he was telling her off (I know cuz she wrote about it in her journal) I am still not sure why he went back and esp after finding out I was pregnant why he did something that could result in impregnanting her so fast...
Has anyone been forced to marry?

2006-12-12 02:30:06 · 8 answers · asked by Bonnie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 02:29:56 · 29 answers · asked by SunShine 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering because some of my friends aren't getting along with me and I really am at a loss of what to do.

2006-12-12 02:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by vball girl 1 in Friends

I try to be nice to people and treat them with respect dont drink do drugs and work hard. but Ive no money have terrible luck and everyone seems to be out to screw me over. why is this?

2006-12-12 02:29:44 · 16 answers · asked by jintyyt 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

An an ex guy of mine that I have seeing for 6 months on and off have just broken up. As he keeps changing his mind about what he wants? and I don't think it is fair on my behalf One minuted we are commited and are officially together he is the nicest and kindest person ever the next minute he is not to sure if he wants that type of commitment right now in his life, but cares alot for me. When we do break up for a couple of days he always calls me to say that he does want to keep seeing each other. Very fickle!! He told me yesterday that right now he can't commit with anyone at this moment as he is not in that frame of mind. Where not on bad terms but I just want to move on really, I wanted to say goodbye for good when he told me this again, but he is getting angry and dosent want this and says that he will be deeply and extremely sad if we were to let what we had be destroyed and that he still wants to remain close, even if it is just as friends. As we gel so much.. What do I do?

2006-12-12 02:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has just had an operation on both feet after waiting 3 months for appointment, therefore he can't wear shoes or socks yet so he has left the house just once in three months.

2006-12-12 02:27:47 · 20 answers · asked by Loo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There was flirting, kissing, e-mails, and then all of a sudden, nothing. Men always think that women are confusing, but hello!! I'm attractive, have a strong personality, could I have scared him?

2006-12-12 02:27:06 · 14 answers · asked by 2knowmeis2luvme 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this man who is older then me for 2-3 months... things keep getting more serious... and i keep wanting to leave more and more... but he is impossible to leave and separate from... and is very difficult to argue with.. what do i do? this morning he even asked my father if i could stay over his play for a few weeks to help him get his business back off the ground bc he was in surgery... im scared it is getting too serious i need help. please. i feel like this is hopeless for me.

2006-12-12 02:27:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating