i am getting attached to him i know i shouldnt but i cant help it..hes sooooooo sweet like when i was in culinary w/ him and i was crying cuz a girl i knew died in a car accident, he looked like he was gonna cry b/c i was...and he asked if there was anything he could do to make me feel better..and i said i needed some ******* ice cream...so he went to the kitchen and got an ice cream scoop, and said its hard to believe they dont have any ******* ice cream here....and he kisses me as much as possible when the instructors arent looking....and maybe i should get attached...but i worry hes just foolin me like the rest....guys only want me if there desperate (theres no way HE could be) or if they want sex (which the learn they will not get) and i worry and i told my self i wasnt gonna get hurt again...but im falling for him and i dunno whats wrong with me...why do i like him so much? he makes me laugh and smile so much it hurts and he listens when i talk why do i feel so strongly for him??
2006-12-12 02:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You like him because he pays attention to you and he acts like he truly cares about your problems and he is sensitive to your needs...your brain is going bug-nuts because he is doing everything that is psychologically pleasing to most people....if he is honest in his attention and his motives..then I think you ought to give it a try.
only time will tell.
2006-12-12 02:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by silverback487 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because he seems like he's everything u ever wanted. There's not too many guys like that, so I'd keep whatever it is you have with him. Dont concentrate on what happened to you in the past. He wasnt there and didnt have anything to do with it. Make it clear how u feel about not letting him in ur pants right away, and that will make him respect you. Respect for each other goes a long way in a relationship. You'll never get anywhere by keeping yourself from getting hurt. Just be a little more cautious about who you let in. Things will work out for the best, and I hope this guy is your Knight in Shining Armor! Goodluck.
2006-12-12 02:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel this way partly because he was there for you when you needed someone because your friend was killed in a car accident. He has been very good to you since then--you may falling for him because you honestly care about him and maybe the two of you are right for each other. The only thing you can do is try it and see what happens. You never know unless you get your feet wet. If you keep going on this thing that you don't want to get hurt again--you may live a very lonely and unproductive life.
2006-12-12 02:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a nice guy and you are too worried from being hurt in the past! Go for it but proceeed with caution! You need to KNOW that you are worthy of a good relationship!!!! Just because you have been hurt in the past does not mean that this guy could not be intrested in you. KNOW that you are someone worth knowing and being with!!! It took me until now (40 years old) to realize it is not me with the problem it is the jerks I have picked in the past! I picked guys that I thought I could "help" that is bull! No more fixer uppers!!!! I KNOW what I am worth and a good guy will know it too! So like I said, take it slow because you never know the REAL person and remember you are worth something and he could be the one that sees that! Good Luck!
2006-12-12 02:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by brandi from texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to decide, we can't help you, if you think he is worth taking a chance, then do go on, but remember life doesn't come with a guarantee card, and you are not the only one who's hurt, most of us are, who here does not carry emotional scars of any kind, so stop pitying urself and expecting others to do the same, go ahead and take a chance.
2006-12-12 02:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I see relationships and life. You get your heart broke so many times in life, but if your scared he's just after you for sex just put a guard around your heart until you know for sure what the right thing is. Your intuition will come with time. good luck
2006-12-12 02:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You are human and you're filled with emotions. The issue at hand is that you have a crush, for a guy who is really nice to you and there's nothing wrong with that. My suggestion is for you to slow it down, and stop criticizing yourself. Before you even think about taking your feelings there, you need to work on your self esteem.
2006-12-12 02:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel as you do because of just what you are saying. He makes you laugh and he cares about you and has affection for you and you love to be pampered or fussed over and love to have someone make you feel good as all of us do. You love to have someone who is concerned about you just as I do or anyone else does. He makes you feel desired and special. The thing you need to do is to take things slow and find out about him and whether his feelings are genuine. It takes time to do this and you can't find out unless you really get to know him as you would have to get to know someone who becomes your best friend.
2006-12-12 02:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 11:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH WAIT A MINUTE FIRST THING NOT ALL MEN ARE LOSERS ONLY INTERESTED IN 1 THING SOME CAN BE A REAL GENTLEMEN I KNOW BECAUSE MY BF IS ONE OF THEM WHICH IS WHY I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM ALMOST 5 YEARS IF YOU DONT TAKE CHANCES EVERY NOW AND THEN YOU WILL NEVER GET ANYWHERE HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
2006-12-12 02:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by lita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋