Both of us are in 7th grade (b4 i tell u anything else.) I like this guy, and he usaly only goes for popular people. Popular is rich,PRETTY(big part of popular), nad has so many friends u cant name them all. Now he is only semi-popular, like me. SO he likes to go for the girls he has NO chance with what so-ever. But he obviously doesnt know that so he asks them out, to the dance, ect. And he has also known for a year that i have liked him. And i am practically in LOVE with him, he is all i evr think about and talk about. But since i am not rich that makes me not 1 of those popular kids that he likes. him not likeing me.....Thats just one problem. The other problem is EVERYTIME i think he is starting to like me (he would talk 2 me say good things bout me, practicly stare at me in choir class, ect.) he asks one of those popular people out!!!! And it hurts me beacuse i really like him and i am not sure if he will ever like me unless sombody threatens him......thats not gonna happen! LOL.
2006-12-12 02:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by ilovebrooks3112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im only in 11th grade so im not sure how much use my answer will be but i have been in your situation. your popular but your not so popular everyone falls at your feet right? well in my opinion that guy you like is probably going after those so called"rich and popular" girls because he wants to make a name for himself and is using that girl to be on the "in" crowd. deep down he could really care about you but its middle school and maybe its gonna take him to wake up and see the light but once he matures he'll find that its the person and whats on the inside that matters although physical attraction is also needed. just give him time to realize what he's missing and since he already knows you like him there is nothing more you can really do.
2006-12-12 02:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~Crystal~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he reallly is not interested in you even if you mistake his body language. And maybe he does. Either ways, he's not worth you going crazy over.
A crush will eventually end. Maybe you need to find another cute guy to hit on. Socialise more with other guys and forget bout that guy. When he knows you're for another guy and if he really likes you, he would definitely disclose some of his body language. That way you'll be sure whether he likes you.
Don't act like a desperado. Guys avoid you for that. He might like you but perhaps you're showing too much and that's why he's intimidated. Anyways, always be cool. Don't let others be idolized by you. Let Others idolize YOU.
2006-12-12 02:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by eTerNal_sAnDwIcH92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is usually a point in time where you realize whether or not someone likes you. and its time for you to realize that he doesnt. and what are you stressing about this for anyway?? you are in the 7th grade. you have plenty, plenty of time before you need to worry about relationships. neither one of you are ready for any kind of relationships. youre simply too young. grow up and mature, and let the boys do the same. the only thing you need to worry about now is school and keeping your grades up. let him go on and you do the same. he doesnt like you and he probably never will. if hasnt liked you by now then what makes you think that he will in the future?
2006-12-12 02:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by DropdEadGorgEous! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in 7th grade, why are you wasting so much time and energy on this guy. This guy is using you, its like when there is no one else to hang out with he knows you will always be there just waiting for him to notice you. MOVE ON......There has to be so way many more guys cuter and nicer than this one at your school. Ones that are not shallow and like you no matter how much money you have or dont have
2006-12-12 02:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you guys are young, it still says alot that he is so materialistic. Money and looks are is number one priorities, and he needs to get over that. If and when he does, then you may have a shot with him, but sweetie, women cannot change men. It's been tried, and it's failed. Look around. .. there may be someone looking at you that you don't even know about because you are so star-struck with Mr. Ego. . .get over him, really. He'd just break your heart, if he hasn't already.
2006-12-12 02:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in 7th grade. He's stuck up. Move on and work on school. You will have a boyfriend soon enough. If my daughter wanted a boyfriend in the 7th grade I'd be very upset but explain that its just too soon. Make your friends, have fun and if you ignore them they will find you. Trust me.
2006-12-12 02:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you possibly be in love with him if ye were never even together? Im sorry but the truth is you cant make somebody like you if they dont. Move on women
2006-12-12 02:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kirk Hammett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young. It will pass. its hard and hurts alot. he like rich girls you dont need him move on!
2006-12-12 02:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Esplot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never no guarantee, the one you love is going to love you back. "Go Figure!"
2006-12-12 03:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young move on!
2006-12-12 02:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋