He is really into BDSM and it was fun for awhile, but I don't know that I want to do it forever...also, I found pictures of his ex girlfriends on his digital camera (naked ones) and he is very clingy and possessive and insecure. He is also a pig (his apartment is so messy, I wouldn't be surprised to find Jimmy Hoffa under the piles of crap in there!). I also just got an e-mail from one of my ex's (who broke up with me just because of bad timing) and he wants me back. What to do?
2006-12-12 02:36:31 · 17 answers · asked by landime9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same thing happened to me.
i just asked if we could be friends and we are best friends.
2006-12-12 02:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what BDSM is but nevertheless it sounds like you're ready to move on. I'd be freaked out by the pictures of his ex-girlfriend on his digital camera....are you sure he's not trying to add to his collection? You have the option of leaving this guy behind whether or not you choose to return to your ex-boyfriend which I would caution you to consider the reasons why you split up in the first place as those issues are still going to be there. It's okay to be alone for awhile until you figure out what is best for you. Developing independence is a good thing--take some time to work on yourself! Good Luck
2006-12-12 02:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you happy. It sounds like the guy you are with has problems and needs a maid and a mother not a girlfriend. If you and your ex had a good healthy relationship and you were happy then try to work things out with your ex. Just follow your heart and do what you think is best for you.
2006-12-12 02:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find ur own center sweetheart, Mr Miagido told Danialson that life is about balance. You don't need a good guy, or a bad guy, freaky sexual exploits, or normal ones, to get through the day. Find urself, thats the only one that you can really count on.
2006-12-12 02:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump that pig, being insecure is a BIG problem. anyway, regarding u getting back to ur ex-bf, its better u dont. coz he easily broke up just for bad timing. he doesnt deserve anything. he can break up again for silly things too. he looks at very small things and leaves big ones.
2006-12-12 02:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by submerged_emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who needs more extremes in bed usually doesn't chill, they get more extreme...if you stay with him that is what you should expect. He obviously has major issues per the whole picture. As far as the ex goes, must you have a bf 24/7? Maybe just date him, check him out, take it slow...
2006-12-12 02:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself a loser here!! He's not worth the trouble. I would try to go for your ex, especially if you still care about him. Dump the pig and get yourself a stallion!!!!
2006-12-12 02:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by *Droogie* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of the guys are suitable, especially your present one.
Get back to your former boyfriend for the time being, and keep your eyes peeled for a new one, or perhaps it would be better if you ditch both of them and get a completely new one.
2006-12-12 04:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Goutam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the slob your with now and find a normal guy. don't even go back to your old boyfriend, you broke up for a reason
2006-12-12 02:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better for u check out some more detail about yr preasent boyfrend so that u can know more about him , and remember one thing ,breaking a relation is very easy but to continue with it is very difficult
2006-12-12 02:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by ankur j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the freak
2006-12-12 02:40:31 · answer #11 · answered by cry baby gator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋