what do i do i like this gurl but she is way to young?

Question

i had a party and made out with this gurl and i am the first gurl she has ever kissed and she told me she liked it well i had her over last weekend and she told me she liked me and i like her a lot. she is everthing i want in a gurl only one problem i am 20 and she is 15 almost 16 she told me that she loved me to. i have been threw what she is goin threw befor i fell madly in love with the first gurl i kissed and we dated on and off for bout a year well i asked her if she was absolutly sure bout her feelings and she made it a point that she was she ****** told me i stole her heart and i can tell that she is telling the truth by the way she looks at me well i figured that she is just goin threw a phase so i wont get to close i will let her figure out who she is but i do like her she is really cute and has a great personality. i have asked others and some tell me to let her down easily but i dont want to break her heart cuz she said she has never felt this way be4 what do i do????????

Answer 1

Unlike other people, I will not tell you to forget her and try to date guys, because that is just wrong, whoever says that is an arrogant prick, pardon my expression. Concerning the matter at hand, I think the decision is really up to you, maybe she is sincere or perhaps just going through a phase.

I think at least she deserves a chance to prove to you that her feelings are sincere and since you would be doing it (by that, of course i don't mean sex) you would have to do it in secret, therefore, the age factor shouldn't really matter. The only reason why age could become a factor is if you discover that there is a major gap in terms of maturity between the two of you and that could become a problem.

So, i'd say giver her a chance, if it works out, then Great! if it doesn't, at least you would have tried and I don't think it would hurt her as much.

Answer 2

Uh...break it off before you end up in jail. There is no way that it is healthy for a 15 yr old and 20 yr old to get involved. You've experienced so much more life than she has and it wouldn't be fair to her to rob her of that experience too. Besides, what is going to happen in a year when you are old enough to start going to bars...and she is just learning to drive a car.

She may be great--and beautiful--and have a wonderful personality; but she is WAY too young for you. Be honest with her. Tell her that you thing she is beautiful and a lot of fun--but that you don't think its right to be involved with such a vast age difference.

I made out with a 19 year old guy when I was 14...same thing. I was really nervous because I was so flattered by the attention, but I knew that it was "wrong". We talked the next week and both agreed that there was too big of a difference in age and that we'd rather be friends than end up hurting each other. If she is as great and mature as you say...then this won't be a big deal. If it is a big deal, then just look at it as getting out before you go too far and end up with a statutory rape charge filed by her very angry parents.

Answer 3

Stop!
I didn't even read all the way through this. You shouldn't have made out with a 15 year old girl. It is just as wrong for you as it is for a man to do so. She is not mature enough in her infinite wisdom to even know what real love is yet.

I am sorry if this sounds rude but as a parent, this agitates me a bit. Try and remember when you were that age going through a tough time and someone showed you affection of this nature. It was probably someon more your age, and you thought you were in love. Just tell her that you can't be with her that it is illegal and that if she wants to look you up in a few years thats great.

Kids are influenced to often by older people these days. We say they are growing up too fast but we are not saying they mature too fast. Yes they are making observations about sex and having sex way before we did when we were younger, but that doesn't mean that their decision to do so was a grown up , and well thought out decision.

Stop what you are doing think about this girls parents.
Ask yourself why you are hanging out with kids this age.

Answer 4

i'm a older 'gurl' going out with a youthful guy. i'm 3 years older than him and all of us started going out while he replaced into 19 and that i replaced into 22. it is not approximately age, however. We have been interested in one yet another for who we've been. the version in adulthood replaced right into a brilliant subject at first, yet now (6 years later) there is hardly any distinction in terms of accountability or morals or something. i think of the main important subject with an age diff like it is via the fact adult adult males are meant to mature later than women people. yet as quickly as you're the two universal adults, it fairly does not matter as long as you're interior an identical place on your lives so can relate to one yet another.

Answer 5

In prison terms, that is what...5-10 years?

First of all, you find girls your own age, or at least legal. You also grow up and have some social conscience...realizing that a 15 year old baby isn't a play thing for an adult anything.

You are a sick sick person.


Also, tell her it isn't happening. Tell her she isn't worth bubba jail gaurd shoving his twelve inch dick up your bum, down your throat, and anywhere in between because you couldn't keep with people your own age.

You should be ashamed of yourslef. Turn it off and never speak to her again...otherwise you deserve what is coming to you.

For shame. Be an adult and stop being a lchild...maybe then girls your own age will find you attractive.

Answer 6

Be friends with her first but tell her you want to be friends first then if you both still like each other go 4 it she is way young for u but my last boy friend was 23 and i was 17 at the time it could work but you cant really go out clubbing with her can you if you do decide it cant work then tell her to come back when she is older bt remember age is nothing but a number funnily enough the boy im seeing is a year younger then me so ...

Answer 7

SHE IS TOO YOUNG! She is JAIL BAIT. You are in danger of getting arrested for "contact with a minor/juvenile"

If you really think you are in love and not just "in lust" wait for her to grow up and graduate from high school before pursuing a relationship.

The last thing this GIRL needs is some over sexed twenty something MAN getting her pregnant.

Keep it in your pants kiddo! Right now you need to concentrate on finishing college or learning a solid trade to become self supporting and independent. And anyway, at twenty you are TOO YOUNG for a serious relationship.

KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS!

Answer 8

i don't know what state you live in but you can be arrested for dating a girl that young in most. how do you know what her parents would feel about it? she is simply too young for you. you said yourself, you've been in her situation. how did it make you feel to be with them and to keep breaking up and getting back together only to break up again? it wasn't good i bet. and, are you still together? no, right? if she was 17 going on eightteen like tomorrow then i'd say go for it, because she would be more mature emotionally. she's 15 and still trying to figure out who she is and wants to be and emotionally she's is not ready for someone your age. it's better to be flattered and free then doing 2-10.

Answer 9

Girls that age don't really know what they want yet...so what u cld do is be her friend...explain to her...about love n all and make sure she understand...i've met girls her age and most of them seems mature minded...but still they have those childish behaviour. If u really like her...i don't think there is any harm in dating her, anyways age is not a problem...it's just a number. Go slow and see how it goes...if u think of letting her go, maybe u cld tell her u wanna be her brother instead...and u still cld be close to her...hope this help!

Answer 10

you not do a girl that is the same age than i am 20 if you want a gurl that is 15 or 16 you will go to jail but she like you ok