Guys, could anyone tell me why (some) fully grown men want you more after you kick them to the curb? They don't treat you right when they have you (even if you're not "easy"), but when you leave they want you back and can't stand it when another man pays attention to you?
2006-12-12 02:30:36 · 23 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are predators who hunt, but also territorial and resent other males on territory that we have marked. You just need to find a better balanced, more appreciative partner, who will have his eyes open more and respect your multitude of wonderful qualities, while being self aware of his own primal urges.
2006-12-12 02:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This bit of information is going to come as a shock to a great many people; I have finally figured it out!!!! A human trait is to seek after a goal or something. The thrill is in the chase; like a dog chasing a car and barking at it, what do you do with the car when you catch it? Edgar Allan Poe wrote a poem "ELDORADO" about a knight seeking the fabled city of gold. In this poem are the words "ride hard and ride long if you seek for eldorado". I feel the true message Poe was trying to get across was that the real gold was in the jouney seeking for the city, not the city itself.
2006-12-12 02:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is an ego thing. Nobody wants to be rejected but it is like when you are a kid and your parents tell you not to do something.. you do it. It is the whole thing of they want what they can't have. Men from what I am told and from my expereince want a challange. They can't stand the fact that you don't want them so they try and get you back. If you were sitting at home crying over them they would continue to be a@@holes but once you start to move on.. They all the sudden want you. It will never make sense just that men want what they can't have and when you move on it is a blow to their ego
2006-12-12 02:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not true of men I know. If a guy is mature he doesn't do this but thinks when he kicks you out that you will stay out because he is not going to ask you back. The ones who do think as you say are not sure what they feel and when they do react immaturely they later regret their actions and because the grass turns out to be not as green on the other side as they thought they come back and try to be possessive.
2006-12-12 02:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 12:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do it, but it is common--very common. Actually, the last guy I dated is the only one that after I stopped communicating with him as much, didn't bug me all of the time. I think it's just that they are territorial by nature and don't want to see you with someone else, even if they dont want to be with you.
2006-12-12 02:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.. men are idiots. We want what we're told we can't have. It's been this way since we were 5 years old. LOL
Ok, two things are really happening here. One, we don't realize what we've got till it's gone. Alot of guys take women for granted (not all, but alot)
Two, we don't want any other guy, to have what we "claim as ours". Guys don't like takin a hit to their egos. When we see someone else taking care of "our girl", to us, it's like a kick in the face. It means we weren't good enough for her, and some other guy is.
2006-12-12 02:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be the rejection thing. They feel rejected so they want to try and prove to themselves that they are still desirable and could get you back. Of couse some guys arnt this pathetic, some of them genuinly realise theyve been stupid and how much you mean to them and thats why they want you back. The fact is most people dont realise how important someone is to them until theyre gone.
2006-12-12 02:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you've been dealing with grown men but boys masquerading in men's bodies.
Some might be benefiting from, 'hindsight', realizing later what a good deal they gave away, but most likely, they're just jealous that you will be comparing them to another male - and they're going to lose!
2006-12-12 02:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they want what they can't have, they don't realize what there losing until your gone, like i liked this boy sooooooooooooo much and he only liked me as a friend adn when i decided to let go he LOVED me then i told him to stay the hell away from me cause he broke my heart millions of time so now i only like him as a friend and he likes me as friend lol.So they think the girl is so bad but she's gone now they know what there missing and the want her. Oh and there jealous when they see you with someone else, cause they had you first, they are just very bad minded so they want you when someone else want you when you don't want then anymore.
Pick me, Pick me pleasee
2006-12-12 02:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋