Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

2006-12-12 01:57:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that many people like chasing after their wives, moving in every corner their wives turned. They claimed they love their wives. I noticed that at the end result of continuous following their wives, there are fights of cheat and all sort of troubles, like divorces, hospitalizing and other bad endings. That is why I want to know if it is good to do so.

2006-12-12 01:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by Dolson One 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when so much is said about you and it is not true can it affect you

2006-12-12 01:57:20 · 5 answers · asked by sonai 1 in Singles & Dating

My Bestfriend is getting married in May, This is the first time I've been a bridesmaid in a wedding where I wasn't related to the Bride so I'm not certain if I purchase my Bridesmaid dress or if the Bride does.

Also if I do pay for my dress, would it be rude of me to ask if she can pick a cheaper dress as I am just barely affording my plane ticket to fly out to where she lives and am expecting a child next month so I don't really have a lot of money.

2006-12-12 01:56:29 · 29 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Weddings

My husband is a serial womaniser. I have stayed with him really because we have 3 young children and I'm scared to go it alone.

I can live with it as I really dont feel much for him any more, except for 1 relationship he has had. It was with a teenage girl when I was expecting our 3rd child. About a 7 month relationship, she was gorgeous, intelligent and young and I really hate her. She now has a really well paid job and my husband had to leave his as a result of this work based affair.

I am aware that it is jealousy that I am feeling. But this affair has caused me a great deal of embarrassment also. I have never taken any revenge, but sometimes the jealousy / embarrassment runs so deep in me that I make up plans to revenge them both but especially her as she has suffered no consequences at all.

I have had these for around 4 years now, they dont go away, in fact they get worse. I think if I can act out the revenge perhaps it will help.

What do you think? Any ideas of a plan

2006-12-12 01:56:27 · 46 answers · asked by pinklady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 17, and so we havent even really talked since the break up. I have not been responding to her trying to tell me about how this girl is no good that i started hanging out (it was his ex). Anyways, its been almost 2 weeks, and I was wondering how long should I wait? and how should I try becoming friends with her? I dont want her back I just want to be friends cause she is a cool girl to hangout with at least. She also said when we broke up how she still wanted to be "friends" and see eahcother and hangout, but ive been ignoring her cause everyone told me that would bug the hell out of her and make her jealous or whatever... also they said it would just be awkward and cause arguements with this new boy around. But I am really confused and just want to kinda be friends but dont want to deal with the drama of this new boy so what do you think i should do besides just forgetting about her? thank you very much for your time, it is much appreciated : )

2006-12-12 01:55:52 · 18 answers · asked by brockheimer8883 1 in Singles & Dating

who IM's me12 Times a day and i dont like her so is ther a nice way to tell her to stop IM'ing me

2006-12-12 01:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Amber w 1 in Friends

Hey, I talk to this girl on the internet who ive known for a couple of months and she only lives 10 minutes away and wants to meet me but im a shy guy and dont have much experience..should i not meet her to save her the disapointment?

2006-12-12 01:55:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He claimed that part of the reason that he left was because I was a bad parent. I said, fine, you can have the children most of the time and I will see them every other holiday. I had them Thanksgiving week and I will have them Christmas week. Now he says that I should have them 50% of the time because he can't run in the mornings and is gaining weight. What is the response other than laughter? My kids and I have a great tiem when we are together and my mother in law says that she can tell when they have spent time with me because they are better behaved.

2006-12-12 01:55:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't ask for much ......he must take longer than 5 minutes though !

2006-12-12 01:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and have just moved in with my boyfriend. He seemed really off with me the last few days and today I asked him why. He told me that we would not be together much longer if I carried on being a fat lazy slob. I make his lunch, I wash, iron and put away his clothes and I get his work clothes out for him in the evening for the next day. He comes in from work and has a ***. I also cook the dinner most nights and rarely ask him for help. I have to lie down for half an hour when i get in from work because i suffer with anxiety attacks and this was what he came out with, Dont tell me to dump him because we r in too far, what can I do? How can I act like Im not a slob if i apparently am? Help

2006-12-12 01:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you take your cell phone with you everywhere you go while you are at home, is that a sign of cheating. You are married with kids, but your phone is at the toilet with you, on the sink while you are in the shower,in your pocket when you are at dinner and at the tv, and next to you on the nightstand at bedtime. Does that mean you are up to no good? Even though it's not on silent. Thanks.

2006-12-12 01:53:42 · 11 answers · asked by i have a taste for waffles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my date kissed me on the cheek last night.no tongue. :P

am i pregnant??

2006-12-12 01:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and a virgin. The thing is I've had four boyfriends and three of them cheated on me. They slept with another girl. The fourth threatened to cheat if I didnt sleep with him. I at first thought that me being a virgin is something to be proud of, but it seems like that is why I keep getting hurt. I dont know what to do. I dont want to do anything with just any guy you know? I want to love them. But it seems like the more I dont the more I get hurt. What should I do?

2006-12-12 01:52:35 · 29 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

What do girls prefer and amazing personality or amazing looks?

2006-12-12 01:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by loughie0 1 in Singles & Dating

When do you know that you are ready to get married??

2006-12-12 01:52:09 · 26 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

alright my friend came up to me a month ago telling me she is pregnant Just yesterday she tells me she wants to confront her mom about it but does not know what to say I never been in a situation like this before What should i tell help me out please!!!

2006-12-12 01:51:19 · 20 answers · asked by Brianna247 1 in Singles & Dating

so .. we broke up , but why am i soo upsett over it ? Did I really care about him , or is it just naturall to feel like this ?

2006-12-12 01:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Would it be Captain Crunch? Maybe the all-powerful King Vitamin? I don't think you would get much play from the Lucky Charms guy, he seems a little effeminate. So, which cereal stud would you pick to rock your breakfast world?

2006-12-12 01:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating

A week before my husband deployed to Iraq He Decides to welcome his friend which had tryied to sleep with me. All that week I was ignored. I had asked him to spend some time with me and tell his friend to go away for a few hours but he said it was rude. Well we need to get power of attorney for me since he was going to be gone for a year. This was suppose to get done the Saturday before he left. Saturday came around and by 9am they were out the door..all he said was all be right back. They ended up coming back by 6pm. By that time I was furiouse and shortly after arriving we start arguing well he starts yelling at me and calls me a whore (because his other co-worker wanted to sleep with me)he gets his friend involved in our argument and lets his friend call me a whore. I slapped him and he kicks me out of my own home. I call a friend to come and get me and my stuff and l leave. He left but we didn't resolve anything..am really hurt over this and I wonder if I should stay with him?

2006-12-12 01:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by LuLu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What would be some good xmas ideas for the boyfriends parents who you have only met once? I know the mom loves godiva and the dad loves golf. but i do not have much money to spend... Help!

2006-12-12 01:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-12 01:48:35 · 3 answers · asked by lenram 1 in Marriage & Divorce

seeing my ex with one of my friends, how can I let that fact go?

2006-12-12 01:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Candie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by hankygagher 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a workaholic but I always thought if we needed him he would be there for us. My daughter was raped by 5 men and ended up pregnant. When this happened he had just left for an one month business trip overseas. When I contacted him he said he was not coming home and had talked with the police who said there was no rush as they will still hunting down the 5 guys who were on the run and knew where I lived with my 4 children and no husband at home. I would also like to say I am an American woman living in Japan. What do you think of a husband and father like that. Sure would like to hear your opinions. We are now going through a divorce.

2006-12-12 01:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by lefty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Daughter refuses to let grandparents see grandkids. Reason: bf has maniac fits (dissociative disorder) and last one he falsely terrorized grandparent with arrest on three counts. Daughter believes bf; grandparent is innocent of what bf delusions up and would like to see grandkids...Does grandparent turn to MH organization for support? Bf is not on meds and is abusive. Grandparent has invested x number of years free babysitting, lots of toys including swingset and sandbox....Are the grandkids ok?

2006-12-12 01:47:39 · 4 answers · asked by Patches6 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 01:47:24 · 18 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

people say that first love is always the best and yet i feel like am yet to find mine.am 18,had my first boy last year but truthfully my feelings weren't that deep for him.now am unaattatched.was he a fling or a first love.i never slept with him

2006-12-12 01:46:13 · 4 answers · asked by blackbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband work offshore.our marriage is great but my in laws are bothering me.they keep on calling me to check what i'm doing.u see,i'm not the kind of person who flirt with other guys or do things which will destroy my marriage and my husband trust me.this is stressing me up..help me.what should i do.

2006-12-12 01:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(1) Very pretty but high maintance
(2) Not so pretty but good at heart and not that high maintance
(3) Single mom
(4) Rich girl
(5) Girl with pretty girl friends
(6) Girl that is easy
(7) Girl who is popular
(8) Girl with drama
(9) True beauty with or without makeup who is real good inside and out
(10) Girl who cares about family

2006-12-12 01:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating