I am 18 years old and have just moved in with my boyfriend. He seemed really off with me the last few days and today I asked him why. He told me that we would not be together much longer if I carried on being a fat lazy slob. I make his lunch, I wash, iron and put away his clothes and I get his work clothes out for him in the evening for the next day. He comes in from work and has a ***. I also cook the dinner most nights and rarely ask him for help. I have to lie down for half an hour when i get in from work because i suffer with anxiety attacks and this was what he came out with, Dont tell me to dump him because we r in too far, what can I do? How can I act like Im not a slob if i apparently am? Help
2006-12-12 01:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i hate to say this cause you sid not to, but it seems you bend over backwards for this guy and in turn he is telling you that you are a fat lazy slob? come on... that is just the begining of his verbal abuse that could turn into mental and physical abuse... just becareful and watch your back... sounds like a real jerk to me...
2006-12-12 01:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then ask him what made u a fat lazy slob, so u can work on that. But are u good in bed? check that out too.
2006-12-12 10:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 18. That's still a teenager. Can you move back home with your parents? I don't think either of you were ready to move in together. For your own health (emotional and physical) I really think you need to move out, step back from the relationship and breathe. Have some fun. Hang out with other friends. Live with your parents. You are too young for all the drama.
Good luck and God Bless!
2006-12-12 10:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you to dump him...........I THINK it sounds like he is going to dump you.......
In any case, Learn this.... " I AM WORTH MORE THAN THIS AND I DESERVE MORE THAN THIS" then tell that to him. Tell him while you are at, it to get off his fat lazy duff and start helping, because slavery has been abolished. I PRAY YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO DO THIS!
2006-12-12 10:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like it is your problem, it is his. Maybe you should point out all the things that you do. If you don't want to end it maybe you two should speak to a counselor
2006-12-12 09:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM WHAT ABOUT YOU MAKE HIM CALL U A SLOB? THEN IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH HIS ANSWER, CORRECT THE PROBLEM AND SEE IF THIS HELPS YOUR PROBLEM.
2006-12-12 09:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt seem like your acting like a slpb at all. he just seems like an ***. I would kick him to the curb
2006-12-12 09:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by j g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur not in to far leave him it will only get worse
2006-12-12 09:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your never in too far, it's a sign, GET OUT ASAFP !!!!
2006-12-12 09:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you're not in too far, he sounds like a bully , and your acting more like his mother than his equal partner. please leave him. you're worth more.
2006-12-12 10:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋