Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

2006-12-12 01:28:56 · 37 answers · asked by Don 1 in Singles & Dating

i am constantly lecturing my bf about his driving..He lives like 20 minutes away and he drivesss horribbllee thats all everyone ever talks about to me is that your boyfriend is horrible. He puts me in dangerous situations sometimes and he allready has gotten 3 tickets. I love him to daeth and this is one of his few faults. i have told him over and over and makehim promise me. Then he always wnats to race someone. If he gets another ticket he will get his liscense taken away and not see me as much because i cant drive to see him that much. He has broken my trust on this topic soo many times. Last night he went 100 on a straight away but i got really mad adn i was stubborn and didnt talk. Am i being to hard?..if not..what can i do to make him stop?..i allready tell him how much it means to me he drives safe and its because i care?...please help

2006-12-12 01:28:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:27:53 · 2 answers · asked by Helen A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:26:55 · 26 answers · asked by holdnem 1 in Family

I've warned him that it's wrong but he does it anyhow. He says he believes in God but acts like He doesn't exist. He lies to get me to believe him and he just does what he wants and then lies more and plays hurtful games with my feelings! What needs to be done here?

2006-12-12 01:25:57 · 23 answers · asked by Knuckledragger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when i do go to the clubs everyone aways ask how old am i. do you think only 20 somethings go to club or 30 something too. is it half and half or mostly 20 somethings..

2006-12-12 01:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met this guy on the bus & he was really cute. I gave him my numbers but he didnt call, three days later I called him & he barely recognised my voice. Now I feel so humiliated by what happened & I wish I never did it. Is it wrong 2 feel this way?

2006-12-12 01:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in a new semester and thers new ppl in my classes. i like this girl whos in one da classes but da same thin happen last semester except wit a different girl. is this love or not?

2006-12-12 01:23:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...a girl that I work with moved 300 miles up here to be with her boyfriend...who ended up kicking her out after a month. She had no family or friends here and didn't know what to do (she is nineteen and has never lived on her own). I told her that she could stay at the house for a little while but she had to get herself on her feet and let us know what her plans would be. Obviously, none of this has happened. She doesn't pay us rent..she eats our groceries, doesn't clean up behind herself, and won't help around the house. She has ruined my bedspread with makeup all over it and puts her HOT straightening iron on my electric piano. She has no repsect for us (my boyfriend of four years and his son who lives here). We already had a household and want to get back to our old routine. We were trying to be nice...but she has taken advantage of us and thinks that we are going to be a FREE ride. We are not obligated to take care of her....we already have a child...any advice??

2006-12-12 01:20:55 · 32 answers · asked by KristinDouglas 1 in Friends

Is this place slow today or what? It is hard to be bad by myself!

2006-12-12 01:20:41 · 25 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

It is important for you that your fiancee get the ring first??


For me its not that important because all i want is to be with him... not the ring.

2006-12-12 01:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

is 30 to old to to the clubs. i l love going out dancing but i am in my 30s is that that to old

2006-12-12 01:20:15 · 17 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 01:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by caw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does she likes me even

2006-12-12 01:19:16 · 25 answers · asked by vickie 1 in Singles & Dating

getting laid with my life is like going through a mortgage closing. there are so many steps involved in a mortgage closing. the same way in having sex with my wife. she never wants to do it. she always puts other priorities first. i dont know what the problem is, but i need to find out. maybe i just need to have an affair with someone. who knows? what do you think? im good to her. keep the house clean and take care of her and in return i dont get any. i dont know what the problem is. sex is a very important part of marriage. all guys have needs and they have to me fulfilled.

2006-12-12 01:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by astone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Howdy
My partner is far away for Xmas and hard to communicate with. I arranged for flowers and send ecards, any other suggestions? Thought of "kinky pics" etc.....

2006-12-12 01:16:46 · 4 answers · asked by federkugel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Previous to my last question, its kind of brought the fact that my husband is always often being "asked out" by women from his work to the forefront of my mind!

Background - he is 25 yrs, works in a large investment bank, we are newly married. Anyway the office is massive and he's been there for about 6 years, and for a good four years of it he has been a single party boy in the company. Now however, he doesn't really go out with work anymore and we go out together (minus the christmas party's).

He's mentioned several times about situations where young graduates have a) started randomly emailing him after meeting, b) asking him to come to things on the weekend. He has declined these invitations.

women in his team clearly know all about me, but its these girls that he barely knows that it has happened with.

I know now he's got a wedding ring on so it should make it clearer to these girls. Should I worry how he acts at work or accept that he is attractive to others??

2006-12-12 01:16:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have started seeing this girl, i told her we would go out Sunday! But i also told my sister ages ago i would look after my 2 nephews ( age 5 and 6) ages ago, also on sunday! My g/f said she does'nt mind and said she will go out with the kids also! So what i am asking is where can i go to keep them all happy!

2006-12-12 01:16:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 01:14:53 · 10 answers · asked by Mat D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him very much and he is the greatest guy out there. we just broke up 3 months ago and i know we aren't getting back together. for the last 3 years he was my best friend and to be honest i don't know when i am going to be asked out to dinner again by a really great guy. the break up wasn't mean or caused by cheating. we broke up because he just didn't feel the same way for me. we don't speak to each other or see each other and the last time we saw each other i was getting my things from his house. he asked me to call him on his birthday and i told him i would. we were on the phone for over an hour and then i stupidly asked him to lunch. he couldn't that day but text me he would love to have dinner another night. he called me the next day to make plans. we both don't think its a good idea to have dinner but we still made plans to have dinner next week. what do you guys think? no mean answers please!

2006-12-12 01:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok any good gift would do
My friend is 13 years old
Any good ideas will be fine....

2006-12-12 01:13:58 · 6 answers · asked by Dark angel 1 in Friends

My son was staying with his sister. She became a christian and decided that because he wasnt a christian she booted him out of her place. The problem was that she booted him out one and half weeks before he deployed to Iraq. He stayed with her in the city so it was easier for him to go to work. I live in the country so I brought him back home with me after she did that. I am livid with my daughter for kicking him out. I could understand it if he was a problem but, not because he did not choose to become a christian. I dont want her home for Christmas because I have am so upset with her and I dont want to have it out with her ruining everyones Christmas. But her other brothers want her home for Christmas. I love her, but I am completely and totally angry with her and that he had to leave to Iraq with her being that way to him. Do I just keep my mouth shut? She has no idea how much she hurt him. He left on Sunday to Iraq for 18 months or as his paper said 527 days..

2006-12-12 01:13:17 · 34 answers · asked by Hawksflyn2u 1 in Family

Here's my situation. I was dating a woman a few weeks ago. We hung out several times over a month or so and everything was going well. She stopped talking to me after I made a couple of dumb, insecure comments to her. I connected with her probably better than anyone I've ever dated and I made those comments (about her possibly being a player) because I liked her a lot and was afraid of getting burned. I really miss talking to her. How do I maintain or gain friendship with her now that she has not communicated with me for the last 4 weeks? I feel that she would be a GREAT friend even if we never date again. Is it possible to gain her as a friend in this type of situation? Should I just wait a while and then try to contact her again?

2006-12-12 01:13:08 · 9 answers · asked by mu 4 in Friends

2006-12-12 01:12:06 · 11 answers · asked by Mat D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what happens after 5 years, when the spark has fizzled out, and there are no fireworks every time u look at each other? If marriage is not in the near future, then will the relationship die of boredom and end up splitting up? Will appreciate your experiences, thanks :)

2006-12-12 01:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by harnicle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This for a change is true...

My mate has been dating my next door neighbour for the last 18 months.
Her husband died 3 years ago but she has pictures of him still all over the house (which is understandable) but the worst is she has a tombstone in her back garden with his ashes.

He isn't comfortable with the shrine because he can understand if it was at a cemetary and she visited it but to see it everyday is weird.

What do you think he should do or say???

2006-12-12 01:11:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 01:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by ak 123 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was told there is lots of english people. New arrival from B.C.

2006-12-12 01:10:43 · 2 answers · asked by grtoo9 3 in Friends