I recently met this guy on the bus & he was really cute. I gave him my numbers but he didnt call, three days later I called him & he barely recognised my voice. Now I feel so humiliated by what happened & I wish I never did it. Is it wrong 2 feel this way?
2006-12-12 01:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You made the first move, now its on him. Don't hold out on others waiting for him though. And you only talked to him on the bus, once or twice I assume. I wouldn't remember someone's voice. Look at how the coversation went after he knew it was you. That is where your awnser is.
Don't feel humilitated, Thats what dating is about. Now you have done your part, and you never have to ask "what if". Wait.
2006-12-12 01:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by miki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should not feel humiliated. You are a strong female that knew what she liked and took a chance. You just met the guy. Of course he wouldn't know your voice by heart. Relax. Your did just fine. Sometimes guys like the forward women. I would be interested in what else you guys talked about.
2006-12-12 09:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear ! Its natural to feel this way . In your case its upside down
There are lots of other cute guys also ! Don't stop and remember whatever happens , happens for the good :)
I think you would get better guy than this and you would be given number to call rather than to ask someone to call you !
Anyways bye & best of luck ! Don't loose your Innocence :)
2006-12-12 09:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cupid Express 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, totally wrong to feel that way. Let's look at the situation...
1. He doesn't really know you or your friends...who's he gonna tell?
2. You gave him the appropriate amount of time to call you. He didn't.
3. You tried your best by calling him. You now have no regrets. You can go on without thinking of him.
Perfect execution of the dating game.
2006-12-12 09:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, no it's not wrong. But I wouldn't have recognised your voice either. Phone and actual physical presence is not the same thing. Maybe you could have invited him to do another bus ride???
2006-12-12 09:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by eth1_hifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw don't think your the first one this has happened to cause I'm sure your not. You probably caught him off guard when you called him. And maybe he was to shy to call you. Who knows he might just give you a call now. ;o) If not no big thing. Don't worry about it and just have some fun. ;o)
2006-12-12 09:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to hell with him. if you are tripping off of someone you met days ago on the bus you need a reality check. Its the holiday season get out there mingle and find someone new. ASAP
2006-12-12 09:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by ITryHard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel embarassed about the whole thing. Forget about it, I bet there will be other cute guys for you to meet and deserve your attention... but keep this one in the pipeline, in case he calls you in the future.
2006-12-12 09:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spend your precious time pondering over this any longer. Move on and let the next guy ask you for your number.
2006-12-12 09:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel badly. This happens to guys all the time, and they live through it. He just wasn't the right guy for you.
2006-12-12 09:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋