Am i being to hard on my boyfriend?

Question

i am constantly lecturing my bf about his driving..He lives like 20 minutes away and he drivesss horribbllee thats all everyone ever talks about to me is that your boyfriend is horrible. He puts me in dangerous situations sometimes and he allready has gotten 3 tickets. I love him to daeth and this is one of his few faults. i have told him over and over and makehim promise me. Then he always wnats to race someone. If he gets another ticket he will get his liscense taken away and not see me as much because i cant drive to see him that much. He has broken my trust on this topic soo many times. Last night he went 100 on a straight away but i got really mad adn i was stubborn and didnt talk. Am i being to hard?..if not..what can i do to make him stop?..i allready tell him how much it means to me he drives safe and its because i care?...please help

Answer 1

At first response I would say yes....us men hate it when we get criticized, especially over our driving cause there is the inaccurate stereotype that men are better drivers than women...but when I look at your question as a whole you are quite concerned about his safety (not to mention your own) and with what you described his driving is quite serious and is able to put others at risk, that to say no, still be hard on him and remind him that tickets and getting your licensed revoked is not a cheap thing...

Answer 2

I think you are being too easy on him. Why do you keep getting into the car? He is responsible for every person that gets into his car, he may want to put his life on the line, but what about yours or your friends. I rather take my chances in front of a firing squad. Put your foot down, tell him if he is not driving at the speed limit when you are in the car with him, you will either bus or cab it to your destination. He will eventually lose his license then he will have to suffer the consequences by not seeing you as ofter. You both sound too young to die, and if you were my child, I would forbid you to get into the car with him.

Answer 3

Refuse to get in the car with him if he carries on. You dont want your life put in danger, or his. If you dont like something you shouldnt have to put up with it being put in your face! He is responsable for his passangers safety to some extent and needs to calm down. If he has someone in the car with him and drives like a maniac then he will have to face a lot of consequenses if something goes horribly wrong! I would just tell him you dont feel safe in the car when he drives that way, and refuse to get in! If he loves you or wants to be with you then he will respect your wishes. After all it is your life and you want to live many more years to come! If he doesnt care about your safety, never mind his, he doesnt love you and you should find someone who will respect you!

Answer 4

Your life is worth more than any relationship. He NEEDS to hear your words put seriously. He needs to know the gravity of his behavior. Obviously he cannot weigh the outcome of what could happen to him or the drivers around him. Those tickets are warnings that what he is doing is dangerous. His car is a weapon and he needs to respect it as such.

Answer 5

You are not being too hard on him. Tell him that if he really loved you he would not put your life in jeopardy. Also remind him that if he gets his licence taken away, you two won't be able to see each other very often. If he doesn't listen then he doesn't care. And if he doesn't care then he is not right for you.

Answer 6

i like to drive fast too. im an excellent driver and avoided many accidents that were the faults of others. however this doesnt justify me putting my gf life in danger. he needs to respect you alittle more. and if hes 16-20 he probably will keep doing what hes doing out of immaturity.You should drive more often. And when he says no we are taking my car then hes got to compromiose and not make you feel uncomfortable

Answer 7

If he's the boyfriend of the "Kristen" listed on FartherSeemsForever.net, he will:

"die in a firey car wreck on a stretch of County Rd. 27 on February 8th, 2007, after an attempt to engage another driver in a drag race."

So, yes I would suggest you keep nagging him about this.

Answer 8

Are you being too hard on him? Will you be asking yourself that question if you end up in the hospital after being a passenger in his death trap? You can still love him...just refuse to get in the car with him until he changes his driving patterns.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Other Guys are probaly gonna tell you your being hard on him. But Being a chick i see your Point , You are only lecturing him on this cause you love him. Maybe you should drive like that with him in the car , see how he feels when you do that. Good Luck !!