getting laid with my life is like going through a mortgage closing. there are so many steps involved in a mortgage closing. the same way in having sex with my wife. she never wants to do it. she always puts other priorities first. i dont know what the problem is, but i need to find out. maybe i just need to have an affair with someone. who knows? what do you think? im good to her. keep the house clean and take care of her and in return i dont get any. i dont know what the problem is. sex is a very important part of marriage. all guys have needs and they have to me fulfilled.
2006-12-12 01:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by astone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
check to see who shes chatting with on the computer or at work
2006-12-12 01:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck & Christy N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? Sounds like there is a huge communication barrier. Have you been through this cycle with her before? I hope that if your marriage is important that you would not have an affair. Sex is important, I agree with that more than you know, but something is up. But you might not want to take it personal, what if it's a hormonal thing? She might need to see the doctor and discuss the whole libido issue. Good luck, for what it's worth, Im the wife in the equation and im not gettin any either. lol
2006-12-12 01:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by project achieve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. Any chance she is on birth control or something which can cause hormonal shifts? My wife was on Nuva Ring and she didn't want sex for 6 months. I now joke it was the best birth control ever invented - there was no WAY she could get pregnant.
She should talk to her doctor. I know it's embarrasing and she probably doesn't care. If you share the same doctor than you bring it up. Or go to a marriage counsellor who will likely also send her to a doctor.
If she refuses to deal with this than you might be looking at selling your home indeed.....
2006-12-12 01:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot missing from your question, first of all is she in good health how old is she in menopause , if the answer is yes and she not in menopause, Then you have to look elsewhere.
first look at the obvious, your love making skills
your body are you clean
romantic take her flowers perfume
Ask her her fantasies but do this in a romantic setting usually after a couple of glasses of wine.
if your distracted by your surroundings get a hotel room.
2006-12-12 02:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you a few things that happen to me: this doesn't mean it's what's going on in your life but since you have no ideas...here goes.
I went through that. she laid there, then it was the headache all the time. Then going to work in clothes she wouldn't wear out, nice things always looking good, worried about her looks, I started asking her friends, the ones that I knew would talk. They did. She was making it with her boss.
Following her one morning when she had a dentist appointment she followed him down a country road to a hay stack and around it to his car. After they got their pants down...I won't go any further.
Get the picture? she said she was "infatuated " with him, he wasn't anything, I beat the crap out of him, he cried but, she chose him, then.
"infatuation" something different in thier lives, that was many years ago but, it's still in ones mind. They become disinterested in thier lives.
2006-12-12 01:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many things. She could be just tired. Women also have needs. Try romancing her. Sometimes it is hard for a woman to get in the mood unless she feels sexy and appreciated from you. Buy her something sexy that you would like to see her in. Foreplay is important for most women. Also, make sure you take care of yourself. Men aren't the only ones that want an attractive in shape partner. Definitely helps the libido!!
2006-12-12 11:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife may be exhausted. Or maybe she is going through tough times right now. You shouldn't go have an affair but you should talk to her about it. She probably has alot on her mind.
2006-12-12 02:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by sexy gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she either has a lover or does not like sex, some will say try seeing a doctor but don't expect much. accept it or start thinking of a divorce,life is short.hey there's a thought do you satisfy her or is she just getting started when you roll over and go to sleep leaving her wanting???
2006-12-12 02:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, or write to her, you need to find out what is wrong, do it in a loving way, by talking to her....good luck.
2006-12-12 01:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is not into you. She does not like you.
2006-12-12 01:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋