alright my friend came up to me a month ago telling me she is pregnant Just yesterday she tells me she wants to confront her mom about it but does not know what to say I never been in a situation like this before What should i tell help me out please!!!
2006-12-12 01:51:19 · 20 answers · asked by Brianna247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well gurlie if i was you....I would pull her aside one day in school or work or however u see her...and tell her...I would be like "her name" I know telling your parents is going to be really really hard...but you need to pull through with it..your parents might not be okay with it at first...but then they will reliaze how they need to be there for you and support you...You dont know the outcome of what your parents are gonna do but i think your parents will react a little bit then they will calm down when you guys start talking about it. You should tell her...that if she wants and you would recomend being there with her...that way if her parents do any crazy stuff on her than you will be there to protect her...just tell her everything will go fine and she needs to stay strong!...tell her her parents love her very much and everybody makes mistakes and when she tells her parents, they might not reliaze that people makes mistakes..but after awhile i think they will calm down and see how scared she is and how worried about being pregnant she is...put urself in her shoes...think of how she would comfort you if u were in this situation..I wish you the best of luck...just be sure you are helping her and supporting her every step of the way...just telll her that your gonna b there for her no matter what and no matter what her parents think they will always love her good luck!
2006-12-12 02:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by bekah_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. - U need 2 just give her straight advise, look at everything her mom is gonna say when she tells her! she might be pissed about it if you're friend is young & not ready 4 this step, definately if her boyfriend isnt on moms good side. U know the whole situation so just prepare her 4 what shes gonna have 2 go threw! her mom will be on her side if she comes 2 her w/ it like an adult & shows her she has already thought this out & has plans 2 responsabley handle the situation! ( KEEP IT REAL W/ HER & MAKE SURE SHE DOES RIGHT 2 BE BRINGING A BABY INTO THIS WORLD!) THE 2 OF U SHOULD BE ABLE 2 HANDLE IT!!!
2006-12-12 02:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by damion0306@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her mom. She can't keep it a secret, for medical reasons as well as personal reasons. It's not a safe thing to do. She needs to be checked out and given prenatal vitamins. She is putting her health at risk. She shouldn't be too worried to tell her mom, that is what they are there for. Parents have a way of surprising you with how supportive they are in situations like this. I went through it twice. Just be there for her.
2006-12-12 01:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by 81% Naughty, 19% Nice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Tell her just to do it.
She is going to step up and be a mommy and she has to step up to her mommy.
Things will be fine.
And tell her congrats and be there for her.
And watch for hte parents(sometimes they make you do stuff you dont want to)
If you have any problems- tell your friend to get some assistance and there is plenty of it out there. Especially for pregnant women.
She could get her own place and food and medical help. Tkae her and help her
Besides her mom may lvoe the idea nad be very supportive and excited!
2006-12-12 01:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her Mom about the pregnancy that her Mom had nothing to do with (probably) is not the same as discussing it with her Mom. And, she might ask her Mom why she never took the time to talk with her about birth control.
2006-12-12 01:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shld have thought abt this before she had sex...otherwise why so afraid to confront her mom?
All she can do is tell her mom the truth and see how her mom reacts and act from there onwards...but what if her mom won't accept it, does she have any plans? Honestly most parents would be pissed off...but it takes time for them to forgive.
2006-12-12 01:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, her mom is gonna find out one way or anouther. It's such a shame when family can't communicate! Maybe this is why she is pregnant and unwed. She was seeking approval and affection in other sources, because it was not abundant at home, enough to nurture her development as a strong young woman.
2006-12-12 01:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should go wit her so that she can tell her mom. she need someone to be there with her to have her back. But she do need to tell her mother soon or later it will be good to tell her mom before she get 6 months and her mother my be angry
2006-12-12 01:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Beauty is great!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should help her through this difficult time. Sit down with her mother and her and talk about this situation. It may be difficult, but there are many options available. She needs your friendly support and guidance most of all.
2006-12-12 01:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to just be honest with her mom and fess up that she is pregnant. the longer she hides it the more her mom will have a hard time accepting the fact.
2006-12-12 01:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋