Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

My friend just went through a bad divorce. Her ex has custody of their little girl (age 3) b/c my friend didn't have a house or vehicle and they settled on a no fault divorce. Hes 24 and has an underage girl living with him and being with my friends little girl all the time. The girl is little more than a baby herself. She can't take care of a very active 3 yr old. My friend is scared if something should happen (like if the little girl choked), the girl wouldn't know what to do and shes also bothered by the fact that a girl not even old enough to babysit took her place. This girl is getting to wake up every morning with Nicole's daughter, is feeding her breakfast, and is playing with her all day the way my friend used to. She's scared her daughter will come to like the girl better than her. What should she do?

2006-12-12 03:07:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need ideas for a party big or small for soon to be 15 yr olds. no real budget just we need to gaurentee total fun and a party/ gathering to be remembered for a lifetime...any ideas!!

2006-12-12 03:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2dec.1MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-12 03:06:29 · 19 answers · asked by sakeena 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant help it to cry because the family that i taking care for 4yrs now broken for being self centerd and selfish of my ex husband..he cheated me and chose the girl.i know that im not with him beside because his working abroad and migrate in states.it takes long to get us to fix our papers to live in states,but he cant wait and his such a liar that he told me he fixing our paper but i was shocked that his living with the girl and have kids now.i waited him and i did my best to be a faithful a good mother and a good wife but this is what i got.i loved him so much and his the only man that i loved.it hurt a lot and its like craching my heart when im thingking of all the lies thing he told me.we have two wonderful kids and when im looking at them cant help it to cry because all i wish is to have a happy family.eventhough were not rich atlist a happy one.but he broke my family that im taking care of.im crying right now because i still love him,but im hurting also of what he did to me

2006-12-12 03:05:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 03:05:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not believe in the institution of marriage. I feel it has outlived its utility. But due to parental and peer pressures i am marrying someone in a months time. I am an independant person but an extrovert. I like solitude but i do an occasional hang out with my female colleagues. Nothing more than an eatout in the evenings. Spending the rest of my life with somebody and having to sleep in the night..., oh! the thought of it. I slept with my mom till i was 10th class. I feel i will lose all my independance. What do you think?

2006-12-12 03:05:26 · 24 answers · asked by Kushal-Know All 2 in Weddings

i have orgasms by thinking about my boyfriend and my friends getting it on mostly them giving him head and him going on their face or inside them. Actually him eating them out also makes me go. When he's going down on me or doing me from behind i picture him doing this to my friends. if that really happened i'd flip out. and no i dont like females. But i also like to picture a girl eating me out. i mean i've had chances to be with females but really im not into women this is just crazy.

2006-12-12 03:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

i got a B in school.

2006-12-12 03:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant and I was complaining that I think my *** is getting too big and my husband said no, there was no such thing. We actually got into an arguement over it b/c I don't think my *** is that big, and if that's what he likes then he must be looking around a lot...anyways, my question is for the guys...there is a point at which a woman's *** is too big to be attractive, correct or no? I agree that women should have a shape, and not just be a 90 lb. stick, but there's a limit. I said there is such thing as too big and he says no. Am I right or wrong?

2006-12-12 03:03:55 · 3 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Singles & Dating

i had the same b/f for the last year but we are over how can i move on ???

2006-12-12 03:03:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Friends

Expecially during pregnacy. And just when you want to get something off your mind .Even though you know it will either make some one upset or mad .

2006-12-12 03:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by chelle302002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

today i realised that i still like a girl who dumped me a few weeks ago i want to try it again but i dont know what to say is that normal?? can anyone help me please?

2006-12-12 03:02:40 · 11 answers · asked by i hate my life 1 in Singles & Dating

i have asked my girlfriend out a few times but most of the time she can't make it and her reason is that her mother doesn't allow her to. if a girl like me wouldn't she make excuses to go out with me?i know it's good to be fillial, but she used that excuse too many times, does this mean she don like me?

2006-12-12 03:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by advisor 1 in Singles & Dating

what are your star sings are.

2006-12-12 03:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:02:19 · 9 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

If not, what do they enjoy? What form of flattery works for you?

2006-12-12 03:02:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of a year has always been in contact with his high school crush. The girl he could never have. He tried cheating on me with her once but she didn't want anything to do with him. He was constantly dumping me or trying to whenever he thought it would work out with her. I ditched him for it. But he begged for me to come back. He claims he's changed and that I am the only one he wants. That what he did before was just a mistake. Never the less he has not stopped the stalker action. He lies to me about talking to her, e-mails, myspace messages, the works. He says I blew the earlier incident out of proportion and he is committed only to me, but the sneaking around continues. He says he hides it because he doesn't want me freaking out, but hiding it just tells me that there is something to worry about. Do I trust him and stick around? or do I end this on again off again for good.

2006-12-12 03:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man broke up with me...I can't get over this.
It hurtz too too much!! What do I do??

2006-12-12 03:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:01:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister in law has raised her granson from baby, as mother could not be bothered and dad too young. the dad has been in boys life all along and now has a house and another baby, his son stays every weekend, mother still being a tart. now the father has asked if he can take on his son full time and become a family. as son is only 4yrs he is to young to make this decision so my sister who has court custody is torn, to have to decide. it will break her heart to lose him but is it right he should be with his dad and step sister.

2006-12-12 03:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by maceface 1 in Family

I met a Girl about a week ago and well she changed me Before i met her i would look for a one nite stand every time we party , Now all I want is her but my friend is my problem. . he likes her too but me and her have been datin for about a week. last nite when told him we were dating he got mad and told her that i would probably cheat , he even went as low as calling a girl a fooled around with and made her talk to my girl friend. also last nite i got som calls form ppl being mad at me over him runnin his mouth. ALL I WANT TO DO IS LOVE HER WITH OUT ALL THIS BULL

2006-12-12 02:59:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I found myself in a difficult situation....

I was in the steam room at the gym when a large man entred the steam room wearing a pair of shorts that were a little unforgiving for his ample frame.

He sat himself down opposite me and after a few minutes a happened to glance over in his direction to see something that shouldn't have been, hanging out the bottom of his shorts!!!! He sat like that for what seemed like an eternity, other people were laughing and he had no idea. I felt I should tell him but couldn't!!

He then got up to leave and unfortunately his shorts were so small most of his ar*se was on display as well!

What would you have done!

2006-12-12 02:59:32 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

My son is a 6th grader, and last week was distraught because someone broke into his P.E. locker and stole his New Shoes and Body spray. They kicked in the locker damaging it and breaking off the lock. Yesterday he seen his friend wearing them. He told me that his friend said he would bring them tomorrow. My son wants me to stay out of it. As a mother I want to step in and handle it.. What should I do? I don't want the kid getting away w/ it again, nor do I want my son to be bullied. Help!

2006-12-12 02:58:47 · 19 answers · asked by mimi941 1 in Friends

I have tried this in the past and had issues but I am willing to date and see what happens this time but just wondering if this can work.

2006-12-12 02:58:05 · 16 answers · asked by raerae 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is in texas right now and i'm in oregon, ok um he calls me a lot but everytime he tells me he's gonna call he doesn't this happend 2 now and he says everytime that he had to work. do you think he cheating, but i do know that its possible to get stuck at work but i just get so sad when he doesn't call i mean he's the best boyfriend i ever had besides telling me he's gonna call when he doesn't, what do you guys think?

2006-12-12 02:57:34 · 14 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 02:57:31 · 14 answers · asked by flushed4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your BF or husbands 'dick', what did you think? Huge? Ugly? weird looking?
My niece just saw her BF's and she didn't know how to react. I thought it was funny so decided to ask here as well.

2006-12-12 02:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by TexasLSUTiger 3 in Singles & Dating

i care about them both but i av to choose one.the second guy lost his wyf few years ago and has kids i care about .
i love the first guy so much,but ryt now i am torn in between two.wat do i do?

2006-12-12 02:56:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going away at New Year. My family don't want friend and child to come (they think friend is controlling/difficult and they'll get lumbered dog sitting like last time). Friend knows we are planning something and has hinted they'd like to go to same place. How do I handle this without hurting feelings. I can't keep avoiding them!

2006-12-12 02:56:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends