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i care about them both but i av to choose one.the second guy lost his wyf few years ago and has kids i care about .
i love the first guy so much,but ryt now i am torn in between two.wat do i do?

2006-12-12 02:56:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

Follow your heart. If you listen to it, you will KNOW the right person to be with. Everything will feel like it is meant to be. But it sounds like you have already chosen. The first guy is the one you love. You said you love the first guy so much. You didn't use the word love when talking about the second guy with the kids, you just mentioned that you cared about the kids and he had lost his wife so sounds to me that you have made your mind up already, you just haven't realised yet. Good luck and bless you.

2006-12-12 03:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 0 0

Why would you be with two men you are putting your life in jeopardy by being with two men. You shouldnt even be playing with the first guys feelings. You are messing it up for another woman to come in and treat him right. You messing up his confidence and trust for another woman. If you love the first man so much then why start messing with the second man to me I think that you dont know what love means Its easy to say that you love someone but my question to you is do you really in truely mean it when you say that you love either one of the men.

2006-12-12 11:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Allegra W 1 · 0 0

There must be something about one of them that makes him stand out. Even twins, though at times they are identical, there is always something different about one of them whether height, looks, personality, ect. Do not make a decision based sympathy, or else you may end up with regrets.

2006-12-12 11:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0 0

Get your priorities straight. If you are seeing two guys at the same time now, then you are cheating on them both. That goes a long way towards showing them that you love them...

2006-12-12 11:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0 0

HAHAHAH maybe you shouldnt have been with 2 in the first place jjk just pick the one that makes you most happy

2006-12-12 11:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by drummerzrhot 2 · 0 0

Don't be with a guy cos you feel sorry for him it not fair on either of you in the long run.

2006-12-12 10:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by imaginitive04 1 · 0 0

Choose tha one thats gots tha most teeth.

2006-12-12 10:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph Manners 3 · 0 0

pick the one who you enjoy be around the most with. don't let pity or what have you enter into it. and for god's sake slow down you're typing and/or use the spell check:)

2006-12-12 11:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by singledad 7 · 0 0

Buy a duplex and put in a connecting door.

2006-12-12 11:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0 0

The case of trying to please all of the people all of the time. Do what is right for you. The kids will be okay so don't be emotionally blackmailed.

2006-12-12 11:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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