Do you think telling how you really feel in a relationship is good no matter what it may be? Even feelings!?

Question

Expecially during pregnacy. And just when you want to get something off your mind .Even though you know it will either make some one upset or mad .

Answer 1

During pregnancy, sometimes it's better to let it go. The hormones make you crazy. I would say unless telling how you're feeling is going to accomplish something, then it's not worth making the other person upset. If nothing will make you feel better, and there is no real resolution, then wait a few days and see if the feeling passes.

In all seriousness, pregnancy can make you feel things you wouldn't normally feel. I look back at some of the fights I had with my husband when I was pregnant, and they were ridiculous. Not all of them... but the hormones made me wacky.

Good luck to you, with your relationship, and your baby!

Answer 2

In most cases- i think men tend to use your thought and feelings towards something against you so- i don't think it's always good to fully tell you man how you feel about something until you REALLY get to know them.. For example: i'm been with my bf for 4 years and the first few months that we were together i confessed to him that i had cheated on people in the past because they had cheated on me or because i needed to have someone "backe up" in case they left me. After i told him that he felt uncomfrotable about our relationship having his flags up in case i did the same thing in OUR relationship. So- every onece i a while when we fight he'll makes a smart remark like "maybe you already have your replacement before i leave" and finny thing is that i was just trying to be straight forward with him about how i felt and how things were for me in the past. So- it's not always good for you to share all info with your man- he can use it against you when he's pissed at you.

Answer 3

Absolutely. Your feelings will just get you more and more upset if you don't relate them. So what if it upsets someone or makes them mad. You need to know that your feelings are just as important as the anyone elses. You need to upfront in your relationship in order for it to work.

Answer 4

Being able to be completely honest in a relationship is the ultimate. This is not to say one should "unload" a bunch of negative feelings all at once. If one is continually honest the negative feelings don't build up.

Answer 5

Yes, but tact is the key. You don't want to intentionally hurt someone, but being their friend, spouse, workmate, ect, you deserve an opinion. Don't make a a bash fest and go around insulting people, but you are more than at right to share your thoughts.

Answer 6

Be careful, pregnancy hormones make us emotional and think things and act in ways we normally would not.

You could preface whatever you need to say with that warning, that "It could just be my hormones, but...."

Answer 7

yes. just realize there is a way to say everything without it having to sting and there is a atime to say everything as well, follow this and you will have no trouble sharing and being honest.

Answer 8

Yes!! My husband says he is not an angel!!! And he does not read minds!!! If you have to tell him how you feel, then do it gently and respectfully and unselfishly.

Answer 9

MY HUSBAND AND I HAD A AGREEMENT TAHT NO MATTER WHAT EVEN IF IT WAS JUST HORMONES I COULD TELL HIM ANYTHING AS LONG AS IT WAS IN A PEACFUL WAY AND IF I DECIDED LATER IT WAS HORMONES I COULD SAY SORRY AND HE WOULD FORGIVE ME NO QUESTIONES

Answer 10

useing respectful communication is always good