my boyfriend is in texas right now and i'm in oregon, ok um he calls me a lot but everytime he tells me he's gonna call he doesn't this happend 2 now and he says everytime that he had to work. do you think he cheating, but i do know that its possible to get stuck at work but i just get so sad when he doesn't call i mean he's the best boyfriend i ever had besides telling me he's gonna call when he doesn't, what do you guys think?
2006-12-12 02:57:34 · 14 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the Q is answered he told me he cheated when we first started dating and now the chick is preg so its over between me and him but thanks u guys
2006-12-12 06:54:15 · update #1
He's playing you. If the feelings he has for you are all that there would be no problem wiyh him returning your call or calling you himself. We all hace an inner voice that speaks to us. Listen to it and base your actions accordingly.
2006-12-12 03:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by M.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to answer this question because I don't know your boyfriend but from my experience. My Girlfriend lives in Idaho and I live in Cali. I know what you are going through as far as long distance relationship because its difficult to be with someone so far apart from each other. sometimes my girl says that she'll call and she doesn't because something comes up and she explains to me why and so on but doesn't happen often. If I was you I would just ask him why he does that and I'm sure that he will explain to you why that is. I think that trust is very important and powerful in a long distance relationship, you have to trust that person and if you don't then it can lead your to problems and jelousy and etc... The best thing I can tell you is to talk to him even better if you talk to him in person. Wish you the best!
2006-12-12 11:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a reason to believe he may be cheating? Other then the fact that he doesn't always call when he says.
And it's only happened 2 times? Calm down.
Every relationship needs trust. If you don't trust him then you shouldn't be seeing him.
I think you should give him a break. You're going to start coming across as possessive and un-trusting.
2006-12-12 11:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by mrspunkmeister2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't have any proof or much information to tell if he's cheating so don't get stuck on that idea just talk to him and get everythingout even your feelings maybe you'll feel better. But you don't have any proof so don't think he's cheating or that would be a big mistake. Oh and give it some time, everthing might work out.Talk to him about it and tell him how important he is to you.
2006-12-12 11:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why long distance relationships are hard. Take him at his word unless you have some other reason to assume he's cheating. Not calling at a designated time is not a reason to assume someone is cheating to me. This sounds more like insecurity.
2006-12-12 11:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my biggest pet peeves is when a boyfriend, or anyone for that matter, tells you that they are going to call you and don't. I can definately understand your frustration with your man being in TX. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that he is cheating on you. Just tell him that it hurts you when he doesn't call, and let him take action on that. If he doesn't change his behavior, then I'd be concerned.
2006-12-12 11:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that it is disappointing when he doesnt call but until you can prove that he wasnt working you have to trust that that was indeed the case. When he stops calling at all that is when you need to worry. Long distance relationships are very trying but you have to trust him or the two of you will not make it...good luck to you.
2006-12-12 11:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say...kinda confusing when u said he is the best bf u ever had and yet u dun seem to put ur trust in him. Anyways, my advise is confront him...tell him how u feel and then ask him why he never calls when he is suppose to...cld be cause he forgot?
2006-12-12 11:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecure in this relationship. Either get a grip or move on to some one who is closer to you that you can keep tabs on.
2006-12-12 11:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? Give it some time, maybe things will work out.
2006-12-12 10:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋