Because now that you needed their help too nobody could stay but you stay with them when they had problem and helped to solved it no matter what it is..
2006-12-12 02:41:11 · 5 answers · asked by franky pau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are describing my life. I've always helped out people when I could. After when I needed help they weren't there for me. Not always money or anything, just someone who is there for me.
It's a rough way to find out who your friends really are. This is one of the reasons why I have very few friends. I don't trust many people to get that close to. Too many people try to take advantage of me and not offer support or a listening ear in return.
One time I did need a little bit of money and no one wanted to help me. It sucks, but that's what they mean by "man is out for himself." It's a good thing I'm very independent. I'm the only one who I can rely on.
2006-12-12 02:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why but some people just want to use you and go ahead on to what they are doing in other matters. You have to be careful about them kind of people because they can mess you up in the long-run.
2006-12-12 12:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lateasha b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't understand that you need their help or they feel embarassed that they asked you for help and revealed their problems to you.
2006-12-12 10:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans are just cruel like that. I have the same experience as yours.
2006-12-12 10:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe are shy
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2006-12-12 10:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋