I sent my crush a msg saying that we should hangout sometime, since that time, a friend of his wrote a comment to him on a site saying to make a move on me. He sent me a msg few days ago and said "i just got out of a long relationship and right now i'm not looking for any committments, i'm enjoying the single life right now cuz of the space and freedom. Sorry"
Does that mean we might hang out later on? What is the deal here?
2006-12-12 02:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And, does he like me?
2006-12-12 02:38:11 · update #1
do u think he's just using me? and how?
2006-12-12 03:09:39 · update #2
Hints on why he said "no"...
2006-12-12 03:40:41 · update #3
No--sorry! It sounds like a rejection. Believe what he told you and move on. He's not ready yet. There are other guys, always are and always will be.
2006-12-12 02:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that he's being honest with you about his feelings here. I'd take it as a compliment... he's telling you "hey, I'm not ready for any kind of relationship because my head's screwed up and I'd probably hurt you".
The best idea for you is to continue being nice. Tell him "thank you" for the message. Realistically, he did you a favor by telling you he's not ready. Think about it...if he dated you now...and he's not ready, it'd probably end quickly.... something you don't want.
Give him the space he needs, continue talking to him, but don't pressure him to date. Be nice and courteous. Don't get jealous. Eventually, if you play your cards right, he'll come to you, ready and willing for something long term....if that's what you're looking for.
Good Luck
2006-12-12 10:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well so far he is being honest u wouldnt want him to get into a relationship with u then bail because he wasnt ready so give him some time but u can still hang out just dont expect too much he may jus want to be friends for a while.
2006-12-12 10:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just got out of this relationship and he needs time to heal. It may have been a very painful break up--so give him his space and just be his friend--I'm sure he likes you as friend at this time--but putting pressure on him and trying to force him into liking you--will only matters worse and could drive him away forever.
2006-12-12 10:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be in a relationship. He's looking for sex, no strings. He has told you so upfront. More than most guys would do. Take it at face value. Forget about a relationship with him. Move on.
2006-12-12 10:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what it says. He isn't looking for any relationships at this time, and probably not for a while. He's just looking to play the field, and has more respect for you than to play the field with you. Doesn't mean he'll look to your for commitment either
2006-12-12 10:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not interested. I wouldnt pursue him anymore, if he changes his mind let him make a move on you.
2006-12-12 10:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he wants to be able to date whoever he wants, whenever he wants without commitment and my guess is that he is not interested in you..at least not right now
2006-12-12 10:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he doesn;t like you sorry and just making excuse move on
2006-12-12 10:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SOUNDS LIKE A PLAYER
MOVE ON
2006-12-12 10:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋