thats what i would like to know
2006-12-12 02:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
VIRGINITY isnt DIGNITY its just lack of OPPORTUNITY...
2006-12-12 02:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first one is important because its a special occassion, and perhaps its the most exciting the first time. At the same time, from what I've read and experienced, its not till you have done it a few times that you can really enjoy it fully. Its like you relax more, and get a bit better at it. Anyway, if you really love the person, its unreal. If you are unsure, then dont do it. Dont do it as just a social thing or a peer approval thing. Hold on until the motivation is very powerful and your heart and head and vagina all agree with each other.
2006-12-13 00:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty broad question with just as many answers.
Taking care of yourself and not allowing people to use you is everything.
Keeping yourself from contracting diseases is everything.
Keeping another unwanted pregnancy out of this world is everything.
Other people respecting you and your body is everything.
Not giving into peer pressure is everything.
Making the choice to have sex when you are willing and able to face and deal with the concequences is everything. (i.e. have a job that you can support yourself with, in a relationship where the two of you are married or want to get married.)
2006-12-12 02:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is absolutely not everything. But not putting yourself in a situation where you are going to be hurt by a guy and feel stupid and ashamed about it afterwards is truly everything. It is also more difficult to get over someone if you've been together physically. Wait until you find someone who really cares about you enough that you are sure that they will be with you for a long time if not forever.
2006-12-12 02:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your socioeconomic bacground.
If you are conservative and religious, yes...especially and particularly if you are female.
If you are under the age of 18, yes.
If you have a grip on the real world, no. Overall, sex is great. We are sexual beings, so why lie about it and repress it? Plus, if you stay a virgin till you are married and the workings between the sheets sucks ***, it could kill the relationshp. I know that one. I really know that one....so yea...sex is great...just be careful and use every ounce of protection and testing available. Your life depends on it.
2006-12-12 02:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot off people think that being a virgin is like being pure... I think that it all depens on how you look at it... If you have only been with one person and you are with this person forever then its okay... But, if not then you have a passed and you have to deal with it.
2006-12-12 02:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by miss.lodge_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m a virgin and its not if you’re a guy. You have NO experience and most women hate men that “don’t know what there doing” you hear them say it all the time, it’s harsh and it’s true.
2006-12-12 02:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by That Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2006-12-12 02:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you're very religious. Then you are pre-approved for Platinum Membership at your place of worship!!
2006-12-12 03:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Souled Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whell....when i was a virgin...i told my self it wasnt really important and i didnt care....but i quickly realised how much i was lying to myself when i lost it....its not that easy to get back...because when its gone its gone for good. and i felt so used and stuff...sex is something special...and your virginty is as important as the person you give it to.
2006-12-12 02:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by So over-used 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New cars are so much better than used ones!
2006-12-12 02:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋